I am sorry for my attitude and tone, VonDerTann. I hope you will forgive me venting my frustration. I may be wrong about other things, but I was certainly wrong to respond the way I did.
I hope you will hear me out one time.
Everyone here believes in saving lives. I do too. But what is truly the best way?
I question the methods adopted by authorities. I do have reasons though I am one non-expert. But there many doctors and epidemiologists who also question what is happening.
Also, I didn’t say that babies can’t catch the disease, I said that the WHO study reported no fatalities among children under 9. That doesn’t mean it is not possible and of course, the infections are not over and the report is not complete. But I believe it also incorrect, wrong, to say that Everyone is being killed by this disease. That is not what is happening.
Many things are possible. I have four children. I know there are so many ways they could be hurt or killed and I truly am sorry for any death for any cause in any family.
But how afraid should I be? What are the risks of the virus compared to other risks? If I am going to take drastic measures to keep my children and other people safe, which measures? How far do I go?
Someone said that my mentioning deaths by suicide and heart attacks had no relevance. I realize they are not contagious. They are much easier to control than a contagious disease.
Why do these other numbers matter? I am trying to put the various risks into some sort of context. Everything we do in life incurs some sort of risk of life and limb to ourselves and others. Which ones do we choose to worry about and at what cost? If we don’t look at the actual numbers the answers to these already difficult questions are even more difficult.
Let me use another example. In 2018 (the most recent year reported) 36,560 people died from traffic accidents in the United States. About 3,000 people per month. And this happens every single year. It kills young and old alike.
During pre-corona times, I was risking the lives of my children, and *of other people on the road, every single time I drove them to school, or church, or to a soccer game. And the risk was much greater and struck more indiscriminately than the current risks from this disease.
How about risks that are completely discretionary? Should I ever take my children swimming, for example?
3,710 people died by drowning (non boating accidents) in the US in 2018. It is the number one cause of death for children under 4.
I am getting too long. Let me repeat my apology and repeat that I am not intending to diminish the tragedy of any death.
I am questioning the balance and veracity of the news and the true intentions of our government. Just as I allow myself to ask questions every time a secular reporter quotes the pope out of context, I allow myself to question the NYTimes, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, etc. when they tell me to be very afraid, to “cancel everything.”
Their values are not mine. It’s good for me to remember that even saints have been in opposition on political issues during confusing times. And I am sorry again that I fell victim to being rude.