Good Morning frangiuliano! (is just “fran” okay?)
I am going to try to be as brief as possible, pare things down a bit. I hope that is okay.
I usually find that the very thing I am condemning in someone else, I am myself doing. The “log” verse is insightful and a great means of understanding.
Hello OneSheep,
Fran is fine. Your name reminds me of an old Mad magazone coer. Two drawings. Top and Bottom. Top: One black sheep standing in the middle of all white sheep and looking rather worried.
Bottom: One white sheep standing in the middle of all black sheep and looking rather worried.
Now on to business.
I think I may need to clarify projection. For example, I tell you that a man walks out into a stadium and the whole crowd present stands up and cheers. I ask you, “how does the man feel?”. Your first reaction will be one of “how I would feel in the same situation”. Your answer might be “elated!”. In reality, the person could feel frightened, guilty, even angry, we have no idea. We can indeed try to avoid projection, and it can be helpful to do that, but even our alternatives are based on our own past experiences. This is the same way people think about God. You must have already encountered this with other people on the CAF. It is easier to see in others than to see it in ourselves. Bottom line: God is infinitely loving and merciful, regardless of our projections.
Likethe stadium example. Very good. I’m human and project. I don’t think I’ve ever projected my feelings on to God. 99% sure. Ah. I see. Maybe. God is infinetely loving and merciful - even though we think He might be mad at us, He’s not. Right! Christian teaching: You don’t go by your feeling but by what you KNOW.
So, the last question was “How does she not know the value of the child if she is Christian?”.
Well, I think I kind of see an answer in your post. Remember, the question of the thread. “Sin” can have several meanings in everyday vernacular, such as “sin is doing something hurtful, whether we meant to or not.”
I find it difficult to use the word sin other than to mean sin. Doing something hurtful can be a sin and it cannot be a sin. Depends on different factors.
There are two options, in my observation:
- She is really, truly unknowing of the value of the child. She is ignorant.
- She is blind. Desire, resentment, and fear blind us.
Are you saying she is not sinning in either case?
But your question is about willfully rejecting God. Rejecting God and sinning is different!
Search your own life, Fran. Blindness is an automatic response. Have you ever been blinded by one of these and behaved in a way that seems irrational or hurtful? Yet, we resist understanding our blindness because we feel guilty and do not want to “make excuses” for ourselves. So for our purposes, let us remain dedicated to not relieving any consequence, regardless of our understanding. We do not want the compulsion to avoid “making excuses” to be a roadblock to understanding.
The answer to your question is Yes. Who hasn’t if they’re living on this planet? The closer you get to God, though, the more you realize it’s happening and try to stop it. I’m not sure about the guilty idea - I feel like I don’t have any road blocks in that sense but I’m not sure.
And, as you astutely pointed out, we are blind to our blindness. Once the fear, desire, and resentment are gone, I realize I was blind… someone could also point out my blindness to me.
Well, it’s like you have to BELIEVE in order to SEE. You can’t see with all these feelings getting in the way. These feelings can be reduced though by understanding how fragile man is and how lost.
The mother with the “unwanted” child fears her future, and resents her poor choice to have sex. In the case of rape, the resentment is even greater. To clear up the blindness, we have to address the fear and the resentment. Crisis pregnancy counseling is very little about “you are wrong about the life of the child”, it is more about “this is how we can help you address your fears, and save a life.”
So, what do you think, has the woman Knowingly and Willingly rejected God? If you think she has, explain, and we can investigate.
Okay. So now the child is unwanted. Fine. Agree on the counceling technique.
You’re not giving me the information I need, so I’ll put forth my own scenario:
Has The Woman Knowingly and Willingly Rejected God?
- She is going to have an unwanted child.
- She has fear and resentment.
- We won’t even dicuss what brought her to this situation!
- The fear and resentment is causing blindness.
- We want to address and calm her fears.
- We want to save the baby’s life.
- She is a christian
- She is familiar with christian ideals
If the baby is not saved she has rejected God.
If the baby is saved she has rejected God.
Okay, I will save you the trouble. Projection is a very important part of empathy
How is projection a part of empathy?
Projection: I project my feelings onto another person…
Empathy: The other person’s feelings are being projected on to me. Almost literally.
A person who believes that God is cruel and unmerciful is going to have a very warped view of the “perfection” that we are called to. He will still remain a slave to his resentment. Check the comments in blue on post 42 for clarification.
We are to “be perfect, as our heavenly Father is perfect.”
I’ll get to the rest of the series in my next post.
cont’d