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ChristMyLife
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Yet again I disagree. Boy, we really have different views.It is not “nice” when I discipline my son, but it is the right thing to do.
I believe you can discipline a child in a loving and stern and wise manner (a nice way,) or in a harsh, overly critical, mean spirited way.
I believe all interactions we have with people could be viewed in a binary manner, either relatively nice or relatively mean. Even war for example can be seen in a nice/mean binary paradigm. You can overcome an enemy and treat the POW’s with dignity and respect (in a nice way,) or you can overcome them with cruelty and harshness (mean.) You could kill an enemy combatant in a nice way - by shooting them and immediately killing them… Or you could be “mean” and get them down and slowly bayonet them to death.
Again, I believe being “nice” - by nice I mean fair, just, charitable, caring, loving, gentle, joyful, etc - is integral to the Gospel.
I guess you could say I’m a proponent of the much derided “church of nice.”
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