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bethanysamuel
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I think it’s much easier to forgive people when you see them through God’s eyes; he sees us all as equal children of his, precious and created in his image and likeness, but prone to sin because of the fall.
If we really genuinely are coming at it from the right angle,i.e. doing God’s will, if we are ready,we will automatically want to help the person, but this is something that can take decades.
If we are really hurt by someone, its human nature to be angry and to seek revenge,to get even, to “win” or whatever. But if we see the offender through God’s eyes, we see a person who has sinned. We see the vice they fell prey to [greed,lust, etc] and we isolate the act to being a sin. A sin may not be an action; it may be a lack of action, or a word said.
To really thirst for the Kingdom of Heaven means being attracted to all goodness and all kindness and being determined to reject Satan who wants us to hate each other and walk around full of resentments and bitterness.
Whether we express our forgiveness externally by for example buying some flowers for the lady who spread a false rumour about you or hugging the person who just hit you is, again optional.
But if we make a kind gesture to show we really are leaving the past behind, we also must not let the other person think that its acceptable to spresd rumours/ hit people.
Only you can decide what is best under the circumstances.
The epitome of fogiveness for me is Jesus begging his Father to forgive his enemies as he hung on the cross. Thats pure love.
If we really genuinely are coming at it from the right angle,i.e. doing God’s will, if we are ready,we will automatically want to help the person, but this is something that can take decades.
If we are really hurt by someone, its human nature to be angry and to seek revenge,to get even, to “win” or whatever. But if we see the offender through God’s eyes, we see a person who has sinned. We see the vice they fell prey to [greed,lust, etc] and we isolate the act to being a sin. A sin may not be an action; it may be a lack of action, or a word said.
To really thirst for the Kingdom of Heaven means being attracted to all goodness and all kindness and being determined to reject Satan who wants us to hate each other and walk around full of resentments and bitterness.
Whether we express our forgiveness externally by for example buying some flowers for the lady who spread a false rumour about you or hugging the person who just hit you is, again optional.
But if we make a kind gesture to show we really are leaving the past behind, we also must not let the other person think that its acceptable to spresd rumours/ hit people.
Only you can decide what is best under the circumstances.
The epitome of fogiveness for me is Jesus begging his Father to forgive his enemies as he hung on the cross. Thats pure love.