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Shoshana
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You echo the sentiments of the Curé of Ars .Speaking against any priest was not something found on his “things to recommend” list . It was something he discouraged vigorously . He also used to say (about anyone) : “If something uncharitable is said in your presence , either speak in favour of the absent, or withdraw, or if possible , stop the conversation.”
(Could you imagine this dear Saint John Vianney ever trying to moderate an internet forum today …?..uch: ).
One of the problems related to deliberating on a priest , is it can turn into other things. As I was endeavoring to point out earlier, internet forum settings are environments which can tend to amplify these problems.
DETRACTION.
- A few definitions in that domain from Father John Hardon , SJ’s Modern Catholic Dictionary :
Revealing something about another that is true but harmful to that person’s reputation. It is forbidden to reveal another person’s secret faults or defects, unless there is proportionate good involved. The fact that something is true does not, of itself, justify its disclosure. Detraction is a sin against justice. It robs one of what most people consider more important than riches, since a person has a strict right to his or her reputation whether it is deserved or not. (Etym. Latin detractio, a withdrawal.)
GOSSIP.
Idle talk, especially about others. The morality of gossip is determined by the degree to which time is wasted in useless conversation, by the failure in justice or charity committed against others, and by the damage done to people’s reputation by those who gossip.
**SLANDER. **
Detraction. Essentially slander is verbal defamation of a person’s character, although it may be either spoken or written. It also implies suffering or positive harm done to the victim of slander. In popular language calumny is a form of slander. (Etym. Latin scandalum, stumbling block, offense.)
CALUMNY.
Injuring another person’s good name by lying. It is doubly sinful, in unjustly depriving another of his good name and in telling an untruth. Since calumny violates justice, it involves the duty of making reparation for the foreseen injury inflicted. Hence the calumniator must try, not only to repair the harm done to another’s good name, but also to make up for any foreseen temporal loss that resulted from the calumny, for example, loss of employment or customers. (Etym. Latin calumnia, a false accusation, malicious charge; from calvi, to deceive.)
Donoso Cortés , after his conversion, stated:
“Those who pray do more for the world than those who fight, and if the world is going from bad to worse, it’s because there are more battles than prayers.”
As we continue to pray for Fr. Corapi , particularly lifting him up at Mass, we’ll eventually see where God is leading us.
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But my criticism lies with this forum. Enough said. Thank y’all for responding and have a blessed day. it will be another hot day. I am a t peace and leave in peace!