…Child rearing to me is ideally healthy if it includes the normal marital relations of man and a woman whom are married, that in turns produces offspring. That is not to say that all heterosexual couples raise their children healthy, but it sets the precedent that is what most couples attempt to do…
A man cannot be a woman. A woman cannot be a man. We are different in oh so many ways! We were created this way!
Christ chose men to be His Priests. I know one of the reasons why—women can’t hold a secret like a man. Women are emotional, talk things out with their girlfriends. Men, on the other hand-when there’s a problem, go into their Cave (get quiet, don’t talk), solve their problem and come back out of their Cave.
If there’s one (important!) point I read in “Men are from Mars, Women from Venus” is this. I used to think my husband was mad at me when he got quiet. I read the book, and that point-is him. When he has something to solve (a “problem” not an “issue,” I am not Politically Correct)-he goes into his Cave (retracts into his thoughts), then comes out once he has solved the problem, and has decided on an answer.
Women talk it over with friends, husband/boyfriend, parents. We bounce things off others close and trusted by us, and then make a decision-thereby with support.
Women need support-but not men.
No matter what—a man cannot take the place of a woman, and a woman cannot take the place of a man. God’s Balance in the Family. We have different roles. Together, the Family is balanced.
<-This is another reason single mothers (or fathers) with a child or children—there’s a space in the family. Boys need their Father, to teach them how to be a man-a mother cannot show a son how, she can teach but cannot show by example.
Girls need their mothers to show them how to be wives and mothers-how to be feminine. A man cannot teach or show this, no how effeminate a man may act.
Ever notice in a homosexual couple-one usually takes the male role, and one the female role? They do. They are attempting to mimic what is “normal” what is “good.”
Doesn’t quite do it, because it is not the way God made it to work.
Try as they might…Falls short every time. Just another of God’s ways of showing us what is right and what is wrong.
God Bless.
+Jesus, I Trust In You!
Love, Dawn
