Dear Edwin,
I am sorry that you misunderstood my illustration, you see Jesus was there with His mother when she led the woman back to her Son. It was not just Jesus, but God who was there caring for this woman during the struggle in the lookwarm years of her life.
You say that you do not need Mary in your life, but I wonder how much more your life would be enriched if you could just spend a little time getting to know Mary’s Son through the eyes of Mary. This is what we have when we pray the Rosary. It is not the prayers that are important in the Rosary, but what they signify as we thread through the mysteries in the life of Jesus from the time of the Annunciation, to His Death on the Cross, followed by His Resurrection. It is the Scripture itself that is significant because we are led into a deep contemplation of a life with and in Jesus.
I wonder why you are so afraid of having any relationship with the Woman who was chosen by God to bring the Messiah into the world. It really was a special role. By saying yes Mary knew of the sorrow that she would face.
As a mother myself, it is reassuring to know that my heavenly mother is there at my side, and it is even more reassuring to know that God is also there within Christian life. You see the Scripture tells me of some of the things that the Holy Family endured:
- they became refugees when Herod sought to kill the Child.
- Mary and Joseph felt fear when they realised that Jesus was not with them as they returned home from Jerusalem.
- Mary had the sorrow of knowing that her son had been condemned to die as a criminal.
I have no doubt that Mary endured some of the things that pregnant women endure during their pregnancies, such as morning (afternoon and evening) sickness, feeling the baby kicking in the womb, keeping her awake at night as it decides that nighttime is a good time to be active, the false labour, and then in labour the breaking of the waters and the actual birth. As a mother myself I can relate to this particular aspect of Mary’s life. Sadly, one of my former neighbours had a young son kidnapped and murdered whilst they were living in WA. I knew the child and was horrified to learn of what had happened. As the parents of Jesus I feel certain that Mary and Joseph must have felt very alarmed when they discovered that he was not with them. I know I have felt the panic when any of my sons have failed to turn up on time.
Edwin, you have no idea of the graces that God has already bestowed upon me, because God has done wonderful things for me through the grace of the Holy Spirit. He has shown me the joy that comes from receiving the Grace of Jubiliation, and at other times He has given me the grace of Consolation. These have been special moments to me.
The difference that I have with you is that when I speak of God, I speak of God, not of just “Jesus”. It is God whom I love and adore, who I praise every day through my participation in the Eucharistic celebration.
I pray now that your eyes will be opened that that you will learn to respond to Mary, who is also your mother because she is Mother of the Church.
Maggie