I want to paint this on my forehead so I never have to say it again

)): There are NO sins in Purgatory. Sins are gone-o! Nothing there, all gone, you’re going to Heaven, you’re rejoicing, they’ve been forgiven, they’re completely non-existent.
The kind of suffering one goes through in Purgatory is not the same kind of suffering as that in Hell. It’s not a mini-version of Hell before Heaven. It is suffering because you are not yet in Heaven, but you know that’s where you’re going to end up. It’s a suffering filled with love and anticipation, you know, 100%, that you’re headed towards Heaven. It is simply cleaning. Can we get that straight? The sin is gone, the stain from sin is not gone. YOu’re jumping for joy that you made it to Purgatory and at the same time you’re suffering saying, “Shoot, if I just wouldn’t have committed that one, or that one, or that one, I would be cleaner and would already be there.”
I am sorry, as in earlier posts other Catholics have commented that this is not total freedom as you are paying the price for a sin committed or paying the penalty. kind of like being grounded. When I was gounded as a kid that was not freedom of any kind.
Because you’re there, and there is absolutely nothing left for you to do. Freedom! Freedom doesn’t equal Heaven.
It made us able to be clean in God’s grace. Before His sacrifice, that possibility didn’t exist. He doesn’t just cover our sins. I believe that thinking that way demeans what He did.
**Are you now saying then that the blood of Christ DOES NOT cleanse sin? that is exactly what you are saying if you believe this with all due respect. I never said Jesus’ sacrifice “covered” our sins, John the Baptist said "behold the Lamb of God that takes away the sin of the world. **
Yes. But again, free does not equal being in Heaven. You’re also “free” in Purgatory in the sense that your work is done. You don’t cleanse yourself. You don’t stay in Purgatory voluntarily.
** If you are free in that your work is done I suppose I can agree there.**
Protestants and Catholics look at the word “saved” very very differently. To us, it is a process, not a one time thing.
To us it is a process as well that starts with the one time confession, or if Baptized as an infant, the faith that you were raised in. So I don’t see what you are getting at.
Maybe you misunderstood her? She may be more concerned with getting them to believe in Jesus first. To her, if she is Catholic, that is part of but not all of being saved.