I’m of a mixed view on this. On the other hand the man in question is in Church. He did not slam the door in the disciples’ faces, he let them in to his home. No doubt a very messy home. A home on a shaky foundation. An unclean home, like many many homes. But he did not slam the door. The cliché of a journey of a thousand miles starting with a single step…
And honestly, I wish the Church would stop harassing homosexuals, or anyone else on the LGBQT spectrum, and get her own house in order. Because hers is just as messy and unclean as the home I described above. When a prince of the Church can denounce homosexuals as evil incarnate, and then turn out to be abusing his own seminarians who placed their trust in him (Cardinal O’Brien, Cardinal McCarrick), or is convicted of having abused minors (Cardinal Pell), something is deeply, deeply wrong. The gay parishioner, at least, is being honest with himself and with others, unlike Cardinal O’Brien:
in December 2004 he told [members of the Scottish Parliament] that homosexuals were “captives of sexual aberrations”, comparing homosexuals to prisoners in [Saughton jail] and later referred to homosexuality as a “moral degradation”. (Wikipedia)
The notion of Pharisees come to mind, of imposing a burden on his flock that he himself was unwilling, or unable, to observe.
This not meant to excuse the sin of homosexual relations, but it is meant to express a wish that we finally put a stop to this pogrom against homosexuals in the Church until the hierarchy of the Church can finally come to terms with the deep-seated sexual sins of many of its members, and admit that we are all just fallen men and women in need of redemption, whether a homosexual or a potato chip addict. The honesty of the openly gay parishioner IMHO is a more solid first step on the journey to sanctity than the thousands of dishonest steps by a Cardinal O’Brien or McCarrick.