Edwin1961:
If I wasn’t born to my parents at the era I was born, I wouldn’t know IF I would have been born at all!
I was 2 months premature, and had/have eyesight problems at birth.
I am SO thankful that God has chosen to let me be born at this time.
HOWEVER I am moved to disgust for those who are NOT given a chance to BE born.
The tee is actually a bulls eye for God’s judgment, however it will make it easier to direct prayers towards those who need it.
Go with God!
Edwin
Edwin,
Thanks be to God that you were able to survive. I have spent a lot of time in a regional Newborn intensive care unit that was primarily a surgery hospital. The other NICU’s were for preemie’s that didn’t need any surgery.
I have often wondered if our daughter, Claire, would have been born if an ultrasound had been done on her birth mom. I also wonder if I would have given birth to her. I am a much better person and a much better Catholic because I was Claire’s mom.
In the RNICU, I saw a concerned and committed staff. I saw nurses filling out their charts while holding a baby whose parents couldn’t or wouldn’t come in. I tried not to judge. The regional concept meant that some of the babies came from hospitals hours away and if the parents had other children, it was very difficult for them to travel that much.
I had so many people come by the first day I was Claire’s mom to tell how happy they were that she had had parents that I cried most of that day. It was just so wonderful that so many people cared and prayed for my baby before we got there. Claire was about 7 weeks old when her birth parents signed their surrenders and the agency tried figure out how desing a document to place a child with us who was still in the hospital.
So for the next eight weeks, through many ups and downs and lots of learning and coaching from my murses and the chaplaincy staff, I got ready to be a mom.
Around the time we were about to leave the hospital, the wife of the doctor who would become Claire’s pediatrician blew by. She stopped and asked if I would like to see a picture of Calire when she was a newborn. I said yes.
This doctor was a geneticist. She told me how the Fellow (almost a specialist-- another term for endentured servitude – had not wanted to treat Claire because of her “long” thumbs and called this doctor in to diagnose trisomy 18 – a severe retarding and fatal genetic disorder. This geneticist was able to debunk the trisomy 18 immediately – the thumbs aren’t just long, they don’t have a bony joint in them either.
So, one real close brush, but Claire lived to be seven and I had so hoped that the love my sister-in-law had for her would make her see that abortion was wrong. Alas, it didn’t seem to do that.
Still Edwin, thanks be to God that you and all of us are here now.
Mamamull