I don’t think any Catholic to include the Holy Father actually wants to see a smaller Church. However, there are only a few options on the table here: 1) is that people agree with the teachings of the Church revealed to her via sacred scripture and sacred tradition, renounce their efforts to change her, and seek absolution for their sins; 2) is that people who do not, leave and go somewhere that reflects their beliefs about what the Church should be; and 3) is that the Church changes her teachings to accommodate their beliefs.
Option 1 is obviously the best one and the one which allows the Holy Mother Church to retain members and still be Christ’s visible church on earth. Option 2 is the second best option but has obvious faults as we lose souls, but the Church still remains the Church. Option 3 is a disaster where the Church that Jesus Christ founded no longer exists and the gates of hell would have prevailed against it.
Option three is obviously not an possible based on the words of our Blessed Lord himself. That leaves options 1 and 2 as the only viable choices. In both of those two scenarios the decision is in the hands of the dissenters. If they wish to return to the bosom of the Church, I have no doubts that she will welcome them with open arms and thank God for their return. If they do not, she will weep for their loss and pray for God to show them the way home. In neither case is it up to the Church. I pray frequently for unity in Christianity and I am sure that many other members of CAF do as well. However, people are free to reject both our desires as well as God’s will.
When Pope Benedict suggested that he thought we would have a smaller Church, in no way was he talking about what he desired to happen. He was talking about what he predicted would happen. There is a huge difference. By the same token, people on this forum, who you are disagreeing with, are merely saying that they prefer a smaller Church to a Church that no longer exists. Between those two choices, there is only one reasonable decision a faithful Christian can make.
Peace of Christ,
Jason