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Hello Reggie,
No argument here, I just want to be sure I’m properly tuned in. So-
- Gabriel tells Mary she will have a son.
- Mary assumes Gabriel is telling her that she is already with child and replies “how can this be?”.
- Then Gabriel explains the deal to her.
- Then Mary, having planned to remain a virgin (and obviously childless) after Joseph’s and her marriage, says “let it be done to me according to His will”. In other words Mary gave her consent for her life plans to be altered for the will of God.
Is this about right?
You know, when a person stands back and looks at the believability of the whole mystery of God, believing Mary’s perpetual virginity is a relatively miniscule detail that seemingly wouldn’t get so much debate.
I believe the early centuries Church Fathers had a different understanding…this is what I’ve understood was written in the first centuries…
Mary does NOT assume that Gabriel is telling her that she is already with child. On the contrary, when she says, “How SHALL this be,” this reveals that it is definitely possible (and it was understood by some of the fathers) that she had made a vow of virginity.
In other words, instead of “in addition to,” this actually REVEALS her vow, because if she had NOT had a vow of virginity, then the statement doesn’t make sense. (It would have been EXPECTED that she would have a child with her betrothed Joseph, therefore it wouldn’t make sense for her to ask “How shall this be?”)
This is VERY hard to understand if you don’t actually think of yourself in the situation, but when you do, it turns on a light bulb:
Imagine being told that you were going to have a child with your betrothed husband (betrothal was much different than “engaged” as we know it today)…
If an angel of God came and told you that you would bear a child when you were betrothed to a man, then your first response might be something like…
“Wonderful, Praise God…WHEN shall this be?” NOT "HOW shall this be…she obviously knew how babies were made, so the statement if out of place if she didn’t have a vow of virginity.
Now, I had a fairly watered-down priest tell me that this is only an exegesis, and not a likely truth, since it was not common for a young girl to take vows like that at the time, however Tim Staples indicates some writings of the fathers that indicate otherwise on his latest CD series of the Blessed Mother. And historians tell me although it was uncommon, it was not unheard of. There are other examples in the Bible of women taking vows of virginity, so it is completely reasonable to assume that God would protect the N.T. ark of the covenant from ALL stain or sin…forever. Just like the O.T. types…when something is consecrated to God, it is consecrated FOREVER!