It’s because women generally aren’t naturally attracted to those subjects, just like men aren’t generally excited about teaching 3rd graders or being NICU nurses.
I agree with this.
I can’t imagine being a girl in elementary or middle school nowadays and being “pressured” to be interested in STEM.
I work in a microbiology lab (hospital) today, and earned my degree in Biology/Medical Technology. I loved the biological and life sciences all through school, but HATED the chemistry and physics classes–did well enough in them because I’m a good test-taker. But HATED them! After I got my degree and passed my registry exam, I looked for a job in a lab microbiology department because I get to work with the “little creatures” on the petri plates, not with computers that take in blood samples and spit out numbers. (Of course, the microbiology department is now moving towards more of this kind of thing, as instruments like the MALDI-TOF have replaced the old-fashioned biochemical methods.
Anyway, to this day, I’m a total numbskull when it comes to electronics, computers, mathematics, physics, chemistry, etc. Cars are a mystery to me, as are any machines. I even have a hard time figuring out how to work kitchen appliances!
If I had been bombarded with messages that “GIRLS can do STEM, too! GIRLS should be scientists! GIRLS should be engineers!, etc.” I would have probably become convinced that something was wrong with my brain and that I was mentally-handicapped or stupid and didn’t deserve to grow up and graduate and earn a degree and get a decent job, and I probably would have ended up in poverty!
Seriously. Being told that “YOU can do it,!” when you can’t–that’s pretty discouraging.
All of us have a different “natural bent,” and we should be encouraged to go with our natural bent and develop it. My older daughter works in the entertainment industry and makes a very good living doing it–a lot of people thought we were crazy for encouraging her to get involved with theater throughout her childhood and teenage years, but we went with her natural bent and it worked out just fine. My other daughter had many talents and it was difficult to determine where she should head in life, but we encouraged all of her “natural bents” and eventually it became obvious that she belonged in the healing arts.
Neither of our girls showed any interest in STEM, although my younger daughter was told by boys in her class (3rd grade) that “girls can’t do math,” and that made her so MAD that she demonstrated that yes she COULD do math, and she ended up outstripping them completely when it came to math achievements. She didn’t really like math and it would have been a mistake for her to enter a math career–but sheer stubbornness helped her to excel in it!
No one should be coerced into a career that is not right for them.