We do, and we can. It is not an either or. Think of it this way, GOD chose MARY, the only one who was able to carry out the Faith 100% correctly from the beginning of the world. Mary was literally the first Christian. Without Mary’s “Yes!” to the angel, you would not have a chance for salvation would you? No, she trusted in the Lord and because of that, you have a chance at salvation. Catholics see this and honor and respect her for this. Everyday there are Masses held throughout the world in adoration of the Son. Mary said “My soul doth magnify the Lord” and “all generations shall call me blessed”. In Catholic Theology, we have the Communion of Saints, which is a Tradition (doctrine) of the Fathers. We have Church Triumphant (the Church in Heaven), the Church Militant (the Church on Earth) and Church Suffering (the souls which are in purgatory which will soon see the face of God). We believe we are connected to all saints and that once we die (if in a state of grace), that we receive a glorified body and achieve the Beatific Vision (Heaven). We do not believe that once we die we are cut off from any member of the body (the Church), if we die in Christ. We believe that any saint, living on Earth or in Heaven can pray for us and that their prayers can be beneficial. We believe that all prayers are ultimately answered by God. It is true that Jesus performed His first miracle for His mother even though He was not ready. He did this out of love for His mother, and we should also show her love because He honored His mother and gave her to us on the cross when He said “son, behold thy Mother”. All prayers are answered by God, and Catholics only look for intercession of the saints that conforms to the will of God. In Catholic Theology, asking a saint in Heaven or on Earth to pray for you would be no different. The Church has always asked the Saints whether on this Earth or in Heaven to pray for us. Nothing is impossible with God.