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Aloysium
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I don’t think you could, which I imagine is why you choose not to. Sharing and communication require a mutual giving. If the other person is argumentative, or resistant to new understandings, when they are committed to a particular world view or politics, intent on confounding rather than clarifying, if the other person has a hidden agenda and is interested in debunking whatever is being discussed for extraneous reasons, if only because the dialogue is contaminated with mistrust, cynicism and doubt, why bother. I’m no Miss Manners, but it seems to me that a few moments of patience, nodding to signify one’s having paid attention, is all that polite conversation requires before moving on.. . . I have proof, but I’m not going to share it with you. . .