Yes, indeed.
You are correct.
Yes.
Great!
Sure. We Catholics will gladly join you in the “Cannibalism is ok in extremis therefore it is not a moral absolute to say ‘Cannibalism is always, in every case, for all people, wrong’ camp of moral relativism”.
I agree with you.

Cheers! Drank a glass of champagne to celebrate our agreement.
click.
It is just a simple way to say: some things are morally relative (such as cannibalism, stealing, lying) and some things are morally absolute (such as genocide, rape, torturing children for fun).
Now that you elaborated, we have quite a bit of common ground to build upon, which is most promising.

I especially like that you included lying and stealing among the morally relative actions. So far every apologist I saw adamantly asserted that there are no “white lies”. That every instance of theft is morally wrong. I am glad to see that you disagree. Now how close your views are to the “official” party line, I don’t know, and I don’t even care. After all I have this conversation with YOU, and not with some faceless entity.
Now what about “mercy killing”, when the victim actually asks for being helped into the “hereafter”? There is no malice involved in such an action; on the very contrary it comes from love and respect for the other person’s desire. That would be a major breakthrough. And what about public nudity and publicly performed sex? Or some innocent masturbation? Or having sex which precludes procreation? Are these actions intrinsically “evil”?
I must disagree with your examples of moral absolutes. I agree that there cannot be any possible “justification” to condone “torturing children (or anyone else - even animals)
FOR FUN”. But that is not a simple action, you included the “
intent” along with the “moral object”. I could come up with a scenario, when “torturing” someone could be justified. The idea of intrinsically “evil” action which says that an action (object) under any and all circumstances and intents is “evil”… no ifs, ands and buts - is what I deny - until I see a valid counter-example. Same with “rape”, under very extreme circumstances it could be justified. Never a preferred action, but sometimes it is necessary (just like cannibalism). As for genocide it might be justifiable if the existence of a sub-group of humans would be a direct threat to the whole humanity. (Very unlikely, of course.)
But I definitely agree that action “X” with intent “Z” can be considered wrong under all circumstances.
I await your answer as a “lapsed Calvinist”. Are you a recent convert from Calvinism? Do you know much about Calvinism still, or, I wonder, are your views are the same as
this ex-Calvinist who asserts that this faith was not given to him with his consent?
My conversion is not relevant. We are supposed to talk about the subject and not about each other. Many times the moderators pointed this out. Please, let’s forget about “me”, because I will not answer any personal questions.
As for my Calvinist “heritage”, I still think that the Calvinist approach to the problem of “free will” and “God’s omniscience” is correct - they are mutually exclusive. Of course it is not God’s foreknowledge which prevents our free choices, rather our actions cause God’s knowledge, and as such make God’s knowledge contingent - which is in direct contradiction with the catechism.
And I would like to point out again, that there is no “morality” without having an ethical framework. What is
considered “moral” in one ethical framework may very well be
considered “immoral” in another. Please observe the word “
considered”.