So, my brother has been visiting this weekend. He is 10 years younger than I am. He has fallen away from the Catholic Church as well, and though he identifies with mainline Lutheran theology, and occasionally communes at a Lutheran church, he has not formally joined. I invited him to join me for Mass yesterday (my job requires that I work early Sunday morning), and he refused, but said he’d go to the Lutheran church’ Sunday evening service.
I was his Confirmation sponsor when he came into the Catholic Church.
He and I had a three hour talk. While he was understanding on how I could reverse my position on women clergy, he was incredulous at my reversal on homosexuality and contraception.
We walked through Scripture, and he agreed that, yes, Christ established one Church, with Peter at it’s head, and this is capable of being passed down, and that the Catholic Church fits most of the data available, and that the Church is infallible in it’s teaching. Yet, he maintained that he was correct about the issues I mentioned above, and the Church incorrect. He said he could not join a Church that approved of hatefulness and bigotry.
I am uncertain how to approach things. I told him to read aloud CCC 2358 and tell me if that sounded hateful or bigoted. He said no. But the conversation stalled there.
I told him, if I accept that the Church is established by Christ and guided by the Holy Spirit, I must bow my head and assent, and learn as a student why the Church teaches as she does, especially where there is a difficult-to-accept teaching.