As for contraception, abortion, and gay marriage, I think that over the course of the last 20 years or more, the number of times I have heard homilies on those matters could be counted on one hand. In the normal course of parish life, I hardly hear them mentioned. The only place I really hear them discussed much is right here on CAF. That hardly seems an obsession.
The real obsession on these matters seems to be in the secular media which daily proclaim in every manner the gospel of gay marriage, ‘reproductive freedom,’ and contraception. The Church has been reactive in these matters, not pro-active. The time for obsession was back in the 1960’s. Now, the cause has pretty much been lost.
But those moral standards are still worth fighting for, since they form the basis of family and civilization. The acceptance of contraception started us on a decades long erosion of the family, which even now proceeds apace. I simply don’t see an obsession which has not been forced upon us. Do Catholics wish to throw in the towel on cultural collapse? I hope not.