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I am out in the real world too, PeopleB4Things. So you not the only one with a valid opinion. How do you know that 99% of the poor are not cheaters? Do you work with 99% of the poor? Or are you saying that 99% of the poor you’ve worked with are not cheaters?Code:I am out in the real world working with the poor everyday and I know that 99% of the poor are not lazy and cheaters.
Please don’t insult me when I make the point that government handouts encourage dependency on the handouts. And that redistribution of wealth (aka trickle down charity) is actually detrimental to the poor.Many people have no clue about the lives of the poor. They make assumptions from the ease and comfort of their living rooms. They hear anecdotes of cheaters from family and friends and think they know what they are talking about. I understand their ignorance and desire to denigrate others to raise their own status. It’s human nature as described by those studies I mentioned. But I don’t agree with the behavior and believe we can overcome our desire to maintain a social hierarchy with education and hands-on experiences. All people are equal in the eyes of God. You and I are no better than the child living out of a car or the man who lives in the streets.
Yes - being unmarried with kids is one of the biggest factors contributing to poverty. Our welfare programs for decades have encouraged women to have more kids, while discouraging them from taking responsibility for their own actions. Or discouraging them from getting married.I worked with a single mom of 2 teenaged boys
That is quite the sad story. You make her out to be a victim, but you would have to agree that she is responsible for her situation, no? I mean, who forced her to get pregnant and have two kids with no father/husband? Mind you, please understand that I am not for taking away the safety net. I am not for leaving people out in the cold with nothing to eat. And I reject and resent your implication that those with whom you disagree on the proper government policies and funding are somehow clueless, callous and don’t care for the poor. Your attitude is typical of those who demonize the people with whom they disagree. It may be subtle, but it is a kind of demonization nonetheless.who lost her job because she stole $ to feed her kids. Her kids were put into foster care until she was out of jail. She got out and the state required her to have a job and home before she could get her kids back. She complied and it was agreed upon that she would take 6 months to establish her household before taking back the boys. She could visit them at their foster homes. Her 13 YO was in a good home. Her 15 YO was in an okay home. He was depressed and the foster family was having a hard time dealing with his mental health condition. Before the 6 months was up, before mom could establish herself, the 15YO attempted suicide. He was hospitalized for 2 weeks. The state asked her to take her kids back immediately. She wasn’t ready. Her son lost his healthcare because of an error and the mom was not able to afford her son’s meds when he was released from the hospital. She called social services and they told her that her job working at a hair salon made her ineligible for services, but they sent her a $25 gift card to a grocery store to help out. They also told her that her son was being re-enrolled and that she should pay for the meds herself somehow and submit a claim. It would take about 6 weeks to get him back on the rolls. The mom was desperate. She did a false return at work to get the money to pay for the meds. She was caught. The salon was going to work it out with her saying that she was a hard working, committed employee. However, the state prosecuted because it was her 2nd offense & she was on probation. I talked with her case worker and was told that she really felt for this mom but that her hands were tied. I talked with the children’s court appointed advocate who said that mom and kids had strong bonds, that they loved each other very much and were suffering due to their separation from each other. You may see her as a thief or a cheater especially if you didn’t know the whole story. I see her as a desperate mom way over her head and in need of help, not jail.
It is also not charity when the government confiscates money and then lets a small amount of that money trickle down to the poor. Trickle down charity. That is a sad commentary on those who advocate income redistribution in place of real charity.This is a real story. Many realities like this are playing out everyday in communities everyday. Yet all people can see are the 1% of cheaters. Sad commentary on America. Even worse when Catholics make excuses for their apathy. It’s not charity when we give to the poor. It’s our duty.
The Church also recognizes private property. I don’t remember St. John Chrysostom calling for confiscation of people’s wealth to redistribute to the “poor.”“St. John Chrysostom vigorously recalls: ‘Not to enable the poor to share in our goods is
to steal from them and deprive them of life.** The goods we possess are not ours, but
theirs.’** The demands of justice must be satisfied first of all; **that which is already due in justice is not to be offered as a gift of charity.” **
–Catechism of the Catholic Church
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