I still disagree with your idea that it is about “taste”. This idea that the difference is purely aesthetic I think misses the point.
As an example: many OF parishes across the country have completely dropped the use of Gregorian chant in the liturgy, which has “pride of place” in the liturgy. Why has this happened? Is it appropriate that it has happened? Is it a purely “aesthetic” difference between one church that uses modern hymns of praise and worship, and another church which uses the official liturgical music of the Church?
I think not.
“Pride of place” does not mean in every parish, at every liturgy. Some small rural parishes simply do not have the resources to do justice to Gregorian chant. I know wherefrom I speak as I have been a chorister in a Gregorian schola for nearly 15 years. It takes some training to be able to execute
well, and poorly executed chant is excruciating to hear. Training requires not only practice, but a keen interest in this particular form of sacred music.
But just because Ste-Rose-de-Backwater parish does not use chant, does not mean that chant does not have “pride of place” in Catholic liturgy, as any visit to one of the very many Benedictine abbeys that still use Gregorian chant would confirm.
That said there are many scholas like ours that make an effort to bring chant to OF parishes. In at least 4 cities of my province, and in Montreal, a fellow oblate and Gregorian scholar has just obtained permission to chant solemn Vespers in Gregorian chant, according to the new rite, at a parish in Montreal, on a regular (monthly for now) basis.
Between a quiet, spoken weekday Mass, a small parish Sunday Mass with more contemporary music, and a solemn Mass at a Benedictine abbey of the Solesmes congregation (using Gregorian chant in the Ordinary Form) there is a continuum of valid, licit and reverent Masses of progressive solemnity that is in accordance with the degree of solemnity and the abilities and resources of the parish or community.
In our own schola’s case, we bring chant to a different parish every month. We also sing solemn Vespers at the cathedral during Advent and Lent, and solemn Lauds on Holy Saturday. Parishioners see it as a “special occasion”. I would say that this is giving it “pride of place”, with many scholas in my province doing the same thing. We have also recruited new choristers in this manner, and thus ensure that it continues to have pride of place for generations to come.
Lastly, I would say, not singling out anyone in particular, that if folks want to hear more Gregorian chant, the way to do so is to
get involved. That’s what I did. I found a schola,and joined it, not without considerable effort. In addition having to learn chant with no musical notions, rehearsals (1-3 times per month) plus our liturgies and concerts require that I drive 90 km (55 miles) each way, usually at night, and in winter. I do it out of love for the genre. If I, who had no musical notions prior to joining the schola could do it, so could anyone.
Get involved, and start or join a schola!