I do agree with you to an extent, that we Catholics can sometimes lack that relationship with the Holy Spirit. This is why I encourage people to look into the Catholic Charismatic Renewal, so that they can experience the Holy Spirit’s power, and God’s love in a new and “real” way.
However, you must understand that the Holy Spirit works in each and every one of us, regardless of the kind of manifestations of his gifts that you seem to speak of. Remember that the gifts of the Holy Spirit are just that: gifts. Essentially, we do not
need them for salvation, but it does help build up the Church. The most important are the fruits:
Gal 5:22-24 “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control…”
These are the real measure of how close a person is to God.
Now, I don’t want to disappoint you entirely, so I’ll share a little bit about ICPE (
icpe.org/), the Charismatic community I happen to live with
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, and some other things.
They place
a lot of emphasis on the Holy Spirit, not only because they are Charismatic, but because they can’t possibly evangelize without him (because he is the principle evangelizer). I think the greatest testimony of the work of the Holy Spirit is not necessarily the gifts that they practice, but the love they have for each other, and for each and every person they meet. They are truly the most joyful people I have ever met.
Recently they ran a short (one week) School, and I took part in it. I have to say that I have grown so much more, having gone through this. I think I’ve been given the gift of tongues as well (I’m not sure because it sounds kinda repetitive, so I’d like to seek further confirmation on that). I think the greatest work of the Holy Spirit is that I’m much more aware of the love of God now, and because of this, I’m joyful, and more loving toward God, myself, and other people.
By the way, if anyone here has a desire to get to know God more, and in particular the Holy Spirit, I would thoroughly recommend taking part in the four month school that ICPE runs. You can find out more on their website:
icpe.org/.
God bless you all!