Hmm…I’ve got a little problem with terms here.
My confessor tells me that purgatory *is in *heaven - it’s not some in-between place. There aren’t three ‘places,’ heaven, purgatory and hell.
Also, of course, there’s no time there.
And no ‘there’ there, as we think of ‘there.’ Spiritual things don’t have ‘edges,’ they don’t take up space.
I have often thought about how various saints felt a sort of ‘burning’ in their hearts when they had a profound experience of God, and I think that the ‘burning’ or ‘flames’ of purgatory might be something like that. I’ve had something like that - nothing like some great saint, no doubt - just this ‘burning’ feeling of passionate love for and longing for God.
I suppose that purgatory is like this: We have been judged and found ‘worthy’ (so to speak) of entering heaven, but there are still the ‘stains’ of sins on our soul. Those ‘sins’ are what separate us from God, we’re not perfectly pure enough yet (our souls aren’t) to be in the presence of such perfect purity and holiness as God is. We’re sort of ‘in the vestibule’ of heaven. We can ‘see’ God afar off, sort of, we know that He is there, we long to be in His presence with no barriers, we are passionately ‘on fire’ with His love for us…but there’s that ‘dirt’ on our souls, that ‘stain’ of sin that holds us back, somehow from being able to come into His presence.
I think that purgatory is a state of knowing the perfect holiness of God…and at the same time, looking at oneself and seeing the difference between one’s imperfect ‘unholiness’ and God’s perfect holiness. This awareness makes you ‘on fire’ with love for God and a longing for Him, while also ‘painfully’ aware that because of your own choices, you aren’t pure and holy - ‘clean’ - enough to be in His presence.
I think that people ‘suffer’ in purgatory because of the awareness of their distance from God and their acute longing to be wholly in His presence. I think that the souls in purgatory ‘hurt good’ in the sense that they know that this pain, this longing, this fire of passionate love/longing for God is something that purges them and purifies them and brings them closer to God.
I don’t think that purgatory is a fearful place at all. It’s not the bliss of heaven, its the longing for the bliss of heaven because we know what that bliss is that awaits us, far better than we ever know it in this life.
Maybe, in this life, we are always sort of ‘tending’ toward sin, there’s always a little part of us that ‘likes’ sin. And in purgatory, we are purged of that part that ‘likes’ sin, because we see sin for what it really is - and God for Who He really is. We are happy to be having that natural tendency to sin purged away, even while the purging, the passionate longing for perfect purity, ‘burns’ our souls.
Well, you asked.