One can only surmise by the words you post. I am not doubting your sincerity but I am entitled to build a picture from the words you use to express yourself. And when one reports lack of awareness over one topic this will naturally suggest a lack of awareness to a topic inextricably tied in with the first.
Your entitlement to construct a picture is not being challenged. Your stance that “* don’t care about the world around [me]” (#262) has been formed without a discussion of what I care about or my thoughts of the world around me. It would be like concluding from some one’s lack of interest in a book suggest the person has no interest in reading.
This whole paragraph to me sounds as if you stand in a very special and therefore responsible position.
It’s not hard to get into such a position. Not that I would suggest trying to get there. There are some pretty disturbing things to be known about the otherwise uninteresting people walking about. Also in such a position there seemed to be assumed but never mentioned restrictions that I am to apply to myself. For example, I’ve got the door code and alarm code to a friends house. Were I to use it to enter her house and remove certain items in the name of improving her health and her condition despite the positive motivation I think it would be seen as a violation and barriers would be put up.
If you know these things and these people trust you with private details of a more intimate nature then it seems to me that you have a duty-of-care towards your friends to find out more about why pornography is a sanctity
of life issue
I selectively intervene in people’s lives. It’s not necessarily from a sense of duty, but my motivations are another topic. The primary social missions to which I try to contribute doesn’t have a relationship to porn. Having such deep access to someone’s life enables me to discover other areas in which assistance is needed. On such occasion is a coworker I had that was entertaining thoughts of terminating her own life. I had to enlist the assistance of a psychologist in that situation.
But as mentioned, when Mike and Tina decide to buy their book of sexual positions or DVD showing other things they can try out it’s not something about which I care. When a coworker decides to have a “Slumber Party” (a small gathering in some one’s house in which sex toys are displayed and sold) I’m not interested. When I see a person is about to make a bad financial decision, put their child at an academic disadvantage, or is about to make a decision that I believe will have major consequences (ex: drinking alcohol or grapefruit juice while on certain medications) I’ll step in.
If a porn ban were on a ballet I would vote against it. There’s not a clear line between art and porn and I’d expect other consequences of such a law. It’s not hard to come up with a sexually stimulating picture of some one in a non-sexual scenario or an image of a sexual scenario that some one doesn’t find sexually stimulating. It’s in part dependent on the viewer. I don’t think that a law can distinguish between the two.
but by educating yourself. This enlightened understanding has in itself the power of expression to move hearts into deeper knowledge of love
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Some studies say porn increases rates of sexual crimes. Some suggest no effect or are inconclusive. Some have argued that the wider availability of porn is what has lead to the reduction in rape rate in the USA. Some argue it’s not the porn but the impact of longer prison sentences and DNA fingerprinting. So on…
I’m actually thinking about checking out the “Encyclopedia of Sex Work” mentioned earlier in the thread once I can get my hands on one. The last sex related book that I purchased that I had learned about through these forums was a school sex ed book called “
It’s Perfectly Normal….” Though I can’t say I found it as upsetting as some of the others in these forums. It’s on my coffee table now. Guest have found it to be amusing.*