For whatever reason, Catholics want to go right to changing sexual behavior and skip the necessary first step of introducing people to Jesus so that they understand WHY behavior should change.
There is no way in God’s earth that I would have changed my “bedroom behavior” without FIRST making a connection to Jesus. I had to understand God’s love for me FIRST, before I was ready to make life changes. Once I really got it, once I really saw who Jesus was and what He had done for me and what He still wants to do for me-then the desire to obey His will became stronger.
Get out of the bedroom-work on changing the HEART and the bedroom will take care of itself.
ABSOLUTELY YES. Catholics have to come to the realization that being a genuine Christian is the answer to these problems. I happen to love the Church, and believe that to be a Catholic Christian is the best, but this doesn’t change the basic idea here, and it doesn’t change what Scripture says about it.
*"Life by the Spirit
13 You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh[a]; rather, serve one another humbly in love. 14 For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”** 15 If you bite and devour each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other.
16 So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. 17 For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever[c] you want. 18 But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.
19 The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20 idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21 and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. 24 Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. 25 Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. 26 Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other."***