Why do you assume this is arrogance? Did not Jesus say ““You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say to you, Do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.” ?
Did Jesus defend Himself against the accusations brought before Pilate?
Many holy men have not defended themselves against attack. Silence does not necessarily mean guilt and, in Christian charity, I don’t think we should assume it does.
Why do you believe Viagno vs Pope Francis? What makes his spoken word more credible than the spoken word of the Pope?
This is a HUGE “he said-she said” situation…there is no evidence or proof. To base your decisions and your feelings on one side arbitrarily really isn’t fair.