Nor does God need to impose any punishment on us because the way we behave determines the final outcome of our life.
The teaching of the Church is quite clear that it is not a question of having the correct beliefs:
1037 God predestines no one to go to hell; for this,
a willful turning away from God (a mortal sin) is necessary, and
persistence in it until the end. In the Eucharistic liturgy and in the daily prayers of her faithful, the Church implores the mercy of God, who does not want “any to perish, but all to come to repentance”:
It isn’t a mortal sin to be mistaken. In fact it isn’t a sin at all because we are not infallible.
Thank you for your attempt to reassure me about hell. I agree that no mentally healthy person wishes to be annihilated, but it does seem preferable to eternal torment no? Further, I appreciate that you believe that I am not evil, but I don’t think my desire to avoid hell is good enough evidence that I am not evil. What criminal desires to go to prison? How many smokers desire cancer? The desire to avoid punishment is not evidence of goodness, in my opinion. It is true that I believe I do not want to oppose the true God. I would love nothing more than to know God, to love God, and to obey God. But, I can’t believe that the truth about God is so ugly. The RCC’s teaching about God seems to me to be profoundly ugly, and I am unable to believe that hell is the final truth about the universe for me and so many of our brothers and sisters.
The dominant thought in our minds should be that
God doesn’t want anyone to be in hell. The very fact that He died for us on the Cross is enough to prove He will do everything in His power to lead us to heaven. It is entirely up to us to accept or reject His love. What we think we believe is less important than how we live. The real test is whether we obey His command to love and help others. We should be like the thief on the cross who said:
“Jesus, remember me when You come into Your kingdom.”
His prayer was answered. Or the tax collector:
But the tax collector, standing some distance away, was even unwilling to lift up his eyes to heaven, but was beating his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me, the sinner!’ “I tell you, this man went to his house justified rather than the other; for everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but he who humbles himself will be exalted.”, standing some distance away, was even unwilling to lift up his eyes to heaven, but was beating his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me, the sinner!’" I tell you, this man went to his house justified rather than the other; for everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but he who humbles himself will be exalted."
Luke 18:12-14
Jesus came to bring us hope not despair - and to heaven not hell…