The War on Women

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Pro-life work is not identical with making abortion illegal. I keep repeating myself
“If we cant locate the women therefore we cant save the fetus”

I’m glad that at least somebody say “I’m all for making porn illegal”, eventhough I know many women would. I am wondering if there are men who also have some capability :whistle: to grasp the thought that porn causes abortion.
Here lies the problem I have with your account of the issue.

Prove to me that making porn illegal will automatically (and magically) change the hearts of men (and women) into the loving, moral creatures we ought to be and I’ll be at the front of the victory parade carrying the banners.

The problem is this is where your position simply falls apart.

You claim that making abortion illegal will NOT fix the problem because illegal abortions will still continue.

The same principle would seem to apply to porn. Simply making it illegal will not dry up the supply and demand.

Obviously, women can help by drying up the supply side - you really should have a word with those women who conscript their bodies and autonomy for a price to the other side.

The question isn’t solved by attempting to make supply and demand illegal. That hasn’t worked very well for the alleged war on drugs, either. The solution is healing the bodies, minds and souls of men and women. The answer is grace.

We have no more power to “heal ourselves” than a leopard to change its spots. Declaring wars against belligerent leopards with spots won’t solve a thing.

For what it’s worth. I am for making abortions and porn (and street drugs) illegal. I just don’t think it will necessarily solve any of these problems, but I see no benefit in making any of these easy to procure.
 
But your general point is well taken. Goes back to Eve’s “The snake made me do it.” Unfortunately, most of us men are no better: “The woman made me do it.”

The real war is between the principalities of the fallen world and God. Our only role is to pick a side and be loyal to it (faith) instead of attempting to play both sides as if WE are the real power brokers. We ain’t. Lewis’ Screwtape Letters pretty much nails it.
Absolutely.
 
As kozlosap has ruefully pointed out, “it takes two to tango.”
I’m glad that finally you arrive at “it takes two to tango” conclusion :whistle:
Your insistence that “the man put her into the desperate situation,” is, of course, showing no bias with regard to who ought to take responsibility :rolleyes:
Ofcourse the man put her to the desperate situation. Who else? :rolleyes:
and assumes women are powerless with regard to making decisions about when, where and with whom to have sex.
I’m sure you’re trying to blame women for trusting men’s lie. Is that what you’re saying?

I’m sure all the girls here in this thread have learned something new, a wisdom from Peter Plato:
Never trust ANY men!
Apart from the obvious cases of rape where they aren’t, you are claiming that men are ALWAYS responsible for putting women “into the desperate situation.”
I thought “it takes two to tango” ? If not men then who?
If your view of women as “weak” and powerless is true, then I would suggest that until women lose that conception of themselves and begin to make decisions for themselves regarding their reproductive capability, abortion will always be a problem.
Right. So it’s a fact that women with unwanted pregnancy is weak and fulnerable/ helpless.
Question is what do you do with this fact. You’re blaming women for taking drastic measure in desperation, and refuse to acknowledge the guilt of the other party who put her in that situation and then quote “it takes two to tango” is so pointless argument. 🤷
Your alleged “porn is the cause” diagnosis would simply be nullified and shown up for what it is - an obvious case of hypochondria on the part of women Iike you who ought to take a different view of themselves and by doing so almost completely solve the problem.
Right. I’ll take that as you prefer to keep porn legal despite being a good catholic :whistle:
Take that as a bias towards the potential for women to make a difference BECAUSE THEY CAN.
Your position merely assumes they are and always will be powerless BECAUSE it is always the men who “put them” there.
Your blaming “the man” and claiming I am “bias” [sic] towards men’s interest completely misses the fact that you are assuming the incapacity of women to make a difference or to have any responsibility. Speaking of bias, do you see NO problem with what is your obviously biased and disturbed portrayal of women?
It takes two to tango… :whistle:
I bold it for you 😉
If there really is a “war on women” then the obvious answer is for women to start a resistance campaign and stop having sex instead of laying down their arms (literally) allowing men to put them “into that desperate situation.” What you are advocating, it seems, is to keep allowing men to lord it over women by women doing nothing to fight back except nibble at the edges of the problem.
I see. I bold your post above.
Based on “it takes two to tango”, you shouldn’t make such argument :rolleyes:
plus Porn shall be kept legal according to you.
So if girls have sex because of porn, what say you Mr Plato?
Has it ever occurred to you that the production of porn would be given a huge rout if women would simply stop posing? Now, of course, you will insist that women can’t do that because they are powerless in that area, as well. AND my suggesting such a solution shows my bias for men and against the convenient option for women to feign powerlessness and, thereby, always find men at fault for EVERYTHING.
 
I feel like the more you peel the layers away from a feminist, the closer you get to a woman who thinks they are incapable of moral, rational action. Hence the blame of everyone else but themselves.

It’s funny that’s more in line with the thinking of a misogynist than an empowered human being.
Wow, men are in one voice, sounds like a holy choir :rolleyes:
 
I’m glad that finally you arrive at “it takes two to tango” conclusion :whistle:
Well, -]frankly/-] franciscly, I see no further point in -]circling/-] tangoing endlessly around this bush beating the dead horse with it.

I’ll leave it to those reading the thread to draw their own conclusions.

You, my dear, may propagandize your “war” all you wish.
👋
 
Here lies the problem I have with your account of the issue.

Prove to me that making porn illegal will automatically (and magically) change the hearts of men (and women) into the loving, moral creatures we ought to be and I’ll be at the front of the victory parade carrying the banners.

The problem is this is where your position simply falls apart.

You claim that making abortion illegal will NOT fix the problem because illegal abortions will still continue.

The same principle would seem to apply to porn. Simply making it illegal will not dry up the supply and demand.

Obviously, women can help by drying up the supply side - you really should have a word with those women who conscript their bodies and autonomy for a price to the other side.

The question isn’t solved by attempting to make supply and demand illegal. That hasn’t worked very well for the alleged war on drugs, either. The solution is healing the bodies, minds and souls of men and women. The answer is grace.

We have no more power to “heal ourselves” than a leopard to change its spots. Declaring wars against belligerent leopards with spots won’t solve a thing.

For what it’s worth. I am for making abortions and porn (and street drugs) illegal. I just don’t think it will necessarily solve any of these problems, but I see no benefit in making any of these easy to procure.
Here is the benefit:

Illegalizing porn will make the business illegal. Whoever or whichever company making porn they will face criminal charge. Supply will drop, Handphones and Google will be forced to remove porn materials from their search engine.
Children and adult will not be exposed to wrong material about sex anymore.
It takes time before abortion will get lessen, but I am sure it’s will be a big change.
The new generation will be better than this generation. Most of us are wounded by porn now.
 
Something I find very interesting here.
Upon this quote,
On another note, I’ve noticed a few of you arguing in favor of abortion who list “Catholic” as your faith. I would like to remind you that as Catholics we are called to respect life from CONCEPTION to natural death. There is no pro-choice argument that can be reconciled with this important part of our faith.

If you truly support abortion, even if you would never chose it for yourself, you should either change your views or change your faith. By actively supporting the pro-choice agenda, you may also incur upon yourselves an automatic excommunication in accordance with Canon Law.

At the very least, supporting abortion places you outside the state of grace necessary to receive the Eucharist until such time as you make a full and authentic confession. This includes a firm recognition that the action was sinful and a commitment to change.
Two responses came back to it directly:
I am pro-life.
I want to keep abortion legal so that pro-life work can continue.
And…
Exactly. I entirely agree. And I imagine that most “pro-choice Catholics” as we are labelled, hold the same position. Certainly all the ones I know do.

The demand for abortion is so great (horrifically), that making it illegal will simply (a) drive it underground where there are no controls or limits at all and (b) seriously endanger the lives of many women who try and obtain one (to say nothing of further overcrowding an already creaking prison system). The key is to educate and empower women (and, as many have pointed out, men, ie fathers, too).
A wise person once told me that when you are called by name, you respond. Whether you realize it or not.
So why the two responses?
Why the sudden need to clarify position unless there is a certain amount of self recognition in the point that some here are arguing in favor of abortion?
:hmmm:
 
Here is the benefit:

Illegalizing porn will make the business illegal. Whoever or whichever company making porn they will face criminal charge. Supply will drop, Handphones and Google will be forced to remove porn materials from their search engine.
Children and adult will not be exposed to wrong material about sex anymore.
It takes time before abortion will get lessen, but I am sure it’s will be a big change.
The new generation will be better than this generation. Most of us are wounded by porn now.
But we do not enjoy similar benefits from making abortion illegal.
:dts:
 
Right. So it’s a fact that women with unwanted pregnancy is weak and fulnerable/ helpless.
Question is what do you do with this fact…
Is this an admission that your argument is based upon the faulty premise that women are weak, vulnerable, and helpless?
 
Is this an admission that your argument is based upon the faulty premise that women are weak, vulnerable, and helpless?
I don’t know how long I can love a woman that needs millions of deaths, and rising, to keep her in good health. I don’t know how long i can love a man that needs millions of deaths, and rising, so that he can have sex with no strings. I wish these people were more willing to die but they resist death so much that i think they will kill anyone to survive. Help me out. Am I looking at this wrong? Are they not advocating for the legal death of babies so their health won’t be ruined when they kill the babies?
 
I am pro-life.
When you illegalize aboriton, it doesn’t stop abortion.
illegalizing abortion doesn’t support pro-life works. it hinders it.
It’s work focus on punishment, and not saving the woman neither the fetus.

I am pro-life.
I want to keep abortion legal so that pro-life work can continue.
Exactly. I entirely agree. And I imagine that most “pro-choice Catholics” as we are labelled, hold the same position. Certainly all the ones I know do.

The demand for abortion is so great (horrifically), that making it illegal will simply (a) drive it underground where there are no controls or limits at all and (b) seriously endanger the lives of many women who try and obtain one (to say nothing of further overcrowding an already creaking prison system). The key is to educate and empower women (and, as many have pointed out, men, ie fathers, too).

Being against abortion isn’t about taking part in the War on Women. However many opponents of abortion unwittingly give fodder for supporters of it by their actions, words, and attitudes.

I think a “market” approach is the only long-term effective one: reduce the demand as much as possible - and this is also the only way to win the ‘war’ on drugs, too, by the way.

PS. Francisca - I’m all for making pornography illegal, but it presents (a) an obvious free-speech issue, but perhaps more difficult is that (b) how does one (and who) determines what is “pornographic” (as a lot of ‘sexualised’ stuff in one culture is perfectly normal in another, for instance)
As someone else has pointed out, your support for abortion while calling yourself Pro-Life is “doublethink.”

You’re pro-life, but you’re also pro-allowing women to murder their children so that we can prevent them from murdering their children? How exactly does that work? It doesn’t. You cannot be pro-life and be in favor of abortion in ANY WAY.

And as far as it pertains to our Catholic faith, there is no argument you can make to justify abortion. It is a mortal sin to procur an abortion, or to knowingly and intentionally support in any way access to abortion. As I said, those who obtain or support access to abortions may have incurred upon themselves automatic excommunication in accordance with Canon Law.

At the very least, these individuals have placed themselves in a state of mortal sin from which they cannot return as long as they hold the view that abortion should be legal. This belief makes every confession you make invalid because even if you do confess it you are doing so with no intention to change. Also, because you are in this state of mortal sin, you cannot receive the Eucharist. If you do, you are committing another mortal sin every time.

This isn’t an opinion of one person on a forum. This is the actual teaching of our Church. If that bothers you, then you either need to change your views on abortion or change your views on God. I certainly don’t recommend or encourage the latter, as that would only further your descent into sin.

None of this, of course, means forgiveness and reconciliation are not possible. They certainly are. But the first step is recognizing that abortion is always immoral and confessing a true desire to repent and change the behavior and attitudes which brought you into a state of mortal sin.
 
As someone else has pointed out, your support for abortion while calling yourself Pro-Life is “doublethink.”

You’re pro-life, but you’re also pro-allowing women to murder their children so that we can prevent them from murdering their children? How exactly does that work? It doesn’t. You cannot be pro-life and be in favor of abortion in ANY WAY.

And as far as it pertains to our Catholic faith, there is no argument you can make to justify abortion. It is a mortal sin to procur an abortion, or to knowingly and intentionally support in any way access to abortion. As I said, those who obtain or support access to abortions may have incurred upon themselves automatic excommunication in accordance with Canon Law.

At the very least, these individuals have placed themselves in a state of mortal sin from which they cannot return as long as they hold the view that abortion should be legal. This belief makes every confession you make invalid because even if you do confess it you are doing so with no intention to change. Also, because you are in this state of mortal sin, you cannot receive the Eucharist. If you do, you are committing another mortal sin every time.

This isn’t an opinion of one person on a forum. This is the actual teaching of our Church. If that bothers you, then you either need to change your views on abortion or change your views on God. I certainly don’t recommend or encourage the latter, as that would only further your descent into sin.

None of this, of course, means forgiveness and reconciliation are not possible. They certainly are. But the first step is recognizing that abortion is always immoral and confessing a true desire to repent and change the behavior and attitudes which brought you into a state of mortal sin.
This kind of writing demonstrates the myopia of hopeless navel gazing that doesn’t live in the real world. Yes it’s not perfect but as we don’t live in dictatorships you have to work within a political framework of what’s possible.

What Francisca and I suggest actually is. What others long for is merely going to hurt women and compound the issue. You can work against abortion without thinking the solution is to make it illegal here and now. Women need protection as well as the unborn.

Grow up and open your eyes, people, please. Some of us are in the real world. If you came and joined us we might get somewhere. As it is, I hope your unrealistic, unhelpful and utterly patronisingly self-righteous perch is comfy because you’ll be up there a bloody long time if you’re waiting for the world to change for you. Not that one does it for such reasons, but i hope you remember to credit those activists who actually make a difference when it does although I imagine your nauseous pomposity will hide even then any recognition of how the end to the evil of abortion actually came. You really make me sick.
 
What others long for is merely going to hurt women and compound the issue. You can work against abortion without thinking the solution is to make it illegal here and now. Women need protection as well as the unborn.
Doubletalk.
You propose the unborn require protection but you deny them legal protection.

You remind me of pro-choice activists that believe they have virtue in their position since they call for abortion to be safe, legal, and rare.
 
The demand for abortion is so great (horrifically), that making it illegal will simply (a) drive it underground where there are no controls or limits at all and (b) seriously endanger the lives of many women who try and obtain one (to say nothing of further overcrowding an already creaking prison system).
This reasoning bothers me. A lot.

Making it illegal would bring about policies that would hinder the spread of facilities such as Planned Parenthood. It is not about punishing the women who do it, but punishing people who may try to encourage abortion.

Basically, we want to make murder a crime. We don’t want to punish the victims of the crime (both the woman and the baby), but we want to make sure that the murderer doesn’t come out unpunished.

Women will still try abortion, that is a fact. They’ll try practices and medications that will hurt their health, just like many already do for other ails (self-harming, suicide, etc etc). We don’t want to punish them further (they are already hurting themselves), but we want to make those medications more difficult to access.
The key is to educate and empower women (and, as many have pointed out, men, ie fathers, too).
Precisely. However, it will be harder to educate people on this matter when they have so many other solutions to their problems.

Education, trust me, is hard work, takes too long, and isn’t guaranteed to be successful. Those who most need it don’t see its value; they’ll hardly go for this boring solution, when others are much quicker and easier, in their opinion…
 
This kind of writing demonstrates the myopia of hopeless navel gazing that doesn’t live in the real world. Yes it’s not perfect but as we don’t live in dictatorships you have to work within a political framework of what’s possible.

What Francisca and I suggest actually is. What others long for is merely going to hurt women and compound the issue. You can work against abortion without thinking the solution is to make it illegal here and now. Women need protection as well as the unborn.

Grow up and open your eyes, people, please. Some of us are in the real world. If you came and joined us we might get somewhere. As it is, I hope your unrealistic, unhelpful and utterly patronisingly self-righteous perch is comfy because you’ll be up there a bloody long time if you’re waiting for the world to change for you. Not that one does it for such reasons, but i hope you remember to credit those activists who actually make a difference when it does although I imagine your nauseous pomposity will hide even then any recognition of how the end to the evil of abortion actually came. You really make me sick.
Since you resort to several logical fallacies in one post, I’m going to assume that means you know you can’t win the case on it’s merits.

Most notably, the personal attacks, which are completely disrespectful and uncalled for.
 
Grow up and open your eyes, people, please. Some of us are in the real world.
There is only one real world – the one created and superintended by God.

The human ordained one that you claim is the “real” one has all the illusion of it, but none of the actuality.

Do not judge by appearances. What appears to be so will fade or be burned up in due time.

Make no mistake, where you put your faith – in what you suppose is the “real world” – will, ultimately be a huge disappointment when you realize what a bizarre fiction it truly is.
 
Well, I was interested in seeing if anyone’s mind could be changed by various types of arguments in this thread, as the conversation went on. Personally, i think i lack charity in this and when I review what i have written, i do not think it would come from the Son of God. The Son of God does not lack in charity while my words do, so I will withdraw and see if I can “pull the beam out of my own eye.”

I do not believe that “abortion on demand” is from God.
 
Since you resort to several logical fallacies in one post, I’m going to assume that means you know you can’t win the case on it’s merits.

Most notably, the personal attacks, which are completely disrespectful and uncalled for.
My sincere apologies, and the way I wrote (I didn’t mean it to be personal but then a group attack isn’t any better 😦 ), while perhaps explained by it being before dinner, certainly isn’t excused by it.

To be honest, though, my regrettable insinuations aside, there isn’t actually a logical fallacy that I can see (could you point it/them out?).
There is only one real world – the one created and superintended by God.

The human ordained one that you claim is the “real” one has all the illusion of it, but none of the actuality.

Do not judge by appearances. What appears to be so will fade or be burned up in due time.

Make no mistake, where you put your faith – in what you suppose is the “real world” – will, ultimately be a huge disappointment when you realize what a bizarre fiction it truly is.
The point I was trying to make I’ll try expressing in another way, because I think it balances what both of you are saying.

I wasn’t saying “real world” in a ‘shadows on the cave wall’ type of thing - what I meant was we live in a ‘real’ world full of and made by fallible and sinful human beings (we three as well as everyone else 😦 ). It is by no means utterly impossible but in a democratic system (democracy is flawed too!), it is extremely difficult to make actual sweeping changes. I’m not sure I can think of one actual major change, anywhere, really, almost ever. Our social and political system works by adopting incremental changes; the result of compromise.

As people have correctly pointed out on other threads, while the Supreme Court decision earlier in the year re. same-sex marriage is in one sense a “major” change (it’s not really, though it doesn’t make the decision much better IMO), it was also only possible because of a long process of adaptation by both ‘sides’ regarding homosexuality (tolerance on the part of one, and a willingness and desire to work and live a little more within ‘normal’ social boundaries, in the main, on the part of another). Or the establishment of the British welfare state didn’t magically appear with the foundation of the NHS in 1948, or even the introduction of state pensions in 1911, but long before then (arguably over 100s of years). ‘Big’ things only successfully and permanently come from lots of ‘small’ things; little steps usually taken without a long-term goal in sight. (I’m talking about the earthly world here, of course).

Now the demand for abortion only exists because of the consequences of the increasing number of people of both sexes taking rather libertine excesses. (Some people always have, of course, right through history, but while to misquote Larkin “sexual intercourse [never only] began in 1963”, the middle of the 20th century through to today did away with the hypocrisy surrounding sex, which left one rule for the rich, and for men, and another for everyone else. At least we are nearly all in the boat together now).

Firstly we cannot legislate away the demand for abortion, and locking up women for causing the death of a child, isn’t going to do the trick either. People need to either a) have “responsible” sex (ie within marriage, ideally, I suppose) or b) be in a position that it is always the easiest and best choice to choose life (if only for adoption). (Of course plenty of married women have abortions too so I guess they only would have one of those options 😛 ).

Secondly - this returns to the idea of incremental change - small changes which promote life but aren’t characterised or expressed by ways which imply anyone being judgemental (getting doctors not to basically violate women in order to force ultrasounds upon pregnant women who don’t want them - but actually, you know, talking which is something doctors always used to be good at doing, perhaps - about ‘other options’ eg adoption), might be the very first of those steps. They are what might be more possible here and now. Penalising poor women so they have to travel outside of their state or 100s of miles away from home, and then compounding that by doing away with welfare assistance for poorer families (not what is being advocated here, I know, but the pro-life agenda in the US is generally yoked to the arch-neo-liberalism of the Republican Party which while some of it I might find plausible, again, can’t work if you do the whole thing at once), doesn’t really cut the mustard.

Banning abortion outright, when the demand for it still exists, will result in our going back to the situation before 1973, when, basically, rich women (or women with rich boyfriends/husbands), could obtain an abortion, and most women - poorer women - couldn’t; travelling abroad if necessary. This would be one line of defence for any attempt to unpick abortion law in single major attempt, and the deliberate creation of such inequality is such untrammalled awfulness that it would probably be successful.

So, Peter Plato, I do get (and actually agree!) with what you are saying - but I think it misses the point on this. The world you and I live in, runs in the long term to the Lord God’s timetable but in the short term, to ours. It is not judging by appearances to suggest that we deal with the world, today, as it is, and not as we’d like it to be. It would be more or less impossible (because it would seem so blatantly unfair) to make a permanent change regarding abortion, overnight (It was only a few decades ago, but it’s entrenched in society, much like large-scale domestic surveillance which is even more recent but also so entrenched - it will be decades at least before either can be undone, I fear). So, let’s all try to make small changes, one step at a time?
 
I wasn’t saying “real world” in a ‘shadows on the cave wall’ type of thing - what I meant was we live in a ‘real’ world full of and made by fallible and sinful human beings (we three as well as everyone else 😦 ). It is by no means utterly impossible but in a democratic system (democracy is flawed too!), it is extremely difficult to make actual sweeping changes. I’m not sure I can think of one actual major change, anywhere, really, almost ever. Our social and political system works by adopting incremental changes; the result of compromise.
I believe the Church is the one institution that has this idea of fallible sinful human beings as their basis for teaching. We know. We don’t live perfect lives ourselves, each of us have their own demons to fight. Maybe me or you never had to decide between aborting or not, but we certainly had our life or death situations (or, at least, eternal life or eternal death, which should be just as important).

That said, I still don’t believe that we, knowing how evil abortion is, should work at it in small steps. There are lives being ended while we discuss how to better the adoption system, how to assist poor families, how to protect women from assault.

Can’t we fight for all of this at the same time? Compared to the other things we need to fight, isn’t abortion something easy to ban as an institution? Planned Parenthood, for example, offers abortion for “up to $1,500 in the first trimester” - can’t we deal away with this, with just a simple law?

As I said, we don’t need to punish women further. But I think it is in high need that we start to hide the knives they are using to kill themselves.
Firstly we cannot legislate away the demand for abortion, and locking up women for causing the death of a child, isn’t going to do the trick either. People need to either a) have “responsible” sex (ie within marriage, ideally, I suppose) or b) be in a position that it is always the easiest and best choice to choose life (if only for adoption). (Of course plenty of married women have abortions too so I guess they only would have one of those options 😛 ).
One thing choosing life NEVER is: the easiest option. Caring for a child is expensive, time consuming, emotionally taxing, burdensome, and by the time you can reap any fruit out of it, you are either already old or hated by the children you tried to raise with the best of your abilities.

One thing choosing life ALWAYS is: the best choice. It is a life you are saving. Maybe they didn’t have any intention of bringing that life to its fullness, but once it exists it will NEVER be a good choice to end it.
Secondly - this returns to the idea of incremental change - small changes which promote life but aren’t characterised or expressed by ways which imply anyone being judgemental (getting doctors not to basically violate women in order to force ultrasounds upon pregnant women who don’t want them - but actually, you know, talking which is something doctors always used to be good at doing, perhaps - about ‘other options’ eg adoption), might be the very first of those steps.
Here in Brazil, abortion is still mostly outlawed (except for rape and life risk for the mother). However, at the hospital, we still sometimes receive women who tried to/succeeded into committing abortion. You know what we do to them?

We treat them.

We have laws protecting women from being mistreated before, during and after childbirth (either live or dead baby). Sure, we have problems in ENFORCING it, which brings up the question: should we allow abortion to protect the dignity of these women in hospital care, or should we find ways to secure them their rights?

Right now? Right now we have large groups fighting for abortion, and a small one trying to protect women from mistreatment.
It is not judging by appearances to suggest that we deal with the world, today, as it is, and not as we’d like it to be. It would be more or less impossible (because it would seem so blatantly unfair) to make a permanent change regarding abortion, overnight …]. So, let’s all try to make small changes, one step at a time?
While I agree with small steps, some things deserve our full attention and immediate response - like choosing life.

Just to draw a slanted “parallel”:

There are groups around here trying to collect, neuter, and release cats, to reduce their populations. Meanwhile, other cats are still reproducing, and having kitties all around.

If a cat were to give birth to babies near my house, many would say to just adopt the kitties, right? No one would say “let them die for now, you have to focus on neutering the other cats!”.

This is what your idea of small steps is suggesting. That I ignore the ones who need my attention the most right now, just so I can focus on other (just as important) endeavors.

Sure, maybe the money I’ll spend on food for 6 kitties could be better used for neutering 2 more cats (avoiding some 12 new kitties in the next 3 months, or some 50 kitties by the end of the year). However, that would still mean 6 dead kitties resulting from my decision.

Can’t the USA, one of the most developed countries of the world today, focus on both neutering the cats AND caring for the kitties? / focus on both providing resources to pregnant women and saving babies from abortion?
 
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