Thread for Women Discerning Religious Life

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If you’re interested in Franciscans who have health care as part of their apostolate, the Sisters of St. Francis of the Martyr St. George are a definitely worth looking into. (I’m discerning with them now.)

altonfranciscans.org/
 
If you’re interested in Franciscans who have health care as part of their apostolate, the Sisters of St. Francis of the Martyr St. George are a definitely worth looking into. (I’m discerning with them now.)

altonfranciscans.org/
Yeah, I forgot to list that one! I’m planning on making a visit there to learn more about them when I get the chance. Their habit and apostolates are beautiful!

There is another one I forgot to list, originally:

Sisters of the Third Order of St. Francis
franciscansisterspeoria.org/

There are so many of them that are beautiful, it’s hard to remember them all! 😊
 
I am looking long and hard at religious communities with a healthcare apostolate. I believe that I have found my true calling in healthcare as I felt so peaceful during clinicals as a Nursing Assistant. I am thinking about going back to school to become a Licensed Practical Nurse. SO many people have told me that I should do it, and I really want to, but I really need to get a job so that I can fund the classes. So, please, keep me in your prayers! …>

Carm, have you considered going for the LPN?

You can work as a CNA while you go to school. As an LPN, you will be of much more value to your congregation, whatever your role, and if you end up not entering or not staying, to yourself. As a sister or nun, you could work in the apostolates and/or in your order’s infirmary, which regardless of the average age, is going to have some sick and elderly sisters.

I think that you would also find the work much more interesting and rewarding (literally, too $;)) as an LPN.
 
Yes, I am definitely going back to school, but I have to get a job first as a CNA before taking that step. It’s so expensive, but worth it in the end. I will only have 9 more months to complete in the LPN program, but I have to get accepted in to the limited access program first. 😊 I’m sending in my application for acceptance very soon! 😉
 
Yes, I am definitely going back to school, but I have to get a job first as a CNA before taking that step. It’s so expensive, but worth it in the end. I will only have 9 more months to complete in the LPN program, but I have to get accepted in to the limited access program first. 😊 I’m sending in my application for acceptance very soon! 😉
EX-cellent!

(Do you post on another forum? You seem familiar…;))
 
EX-cellent!

(Do you post on another forum? You seem familiar…;))
Yep, I post on Phatmass and I have also posted in the past (and sometimes now) on Catholic Community Forum. 🙂
 
Hello everyone!
I have been asking Mary to pray for you all on this her feast day. I hope you all had a very good and blessed day today.

JMJ+
~Betsy
 
Hello everyone!
I have been asking Mary to pray for you all on this her feast day. I hope you all had a very good and blessed day today.

JMJ+
~Betsy
I hope you had a lovely feast day as well, Sr. Betsy! 🙂 May Our Immaculate and Blessed Mother keep you safe this holiday season!
 
YEAAAAH, I’m so glaaaaddd:D 😃 😃 😃

The community I mostly cherish let me in!!!
A fortnight ago, I went in the cloister! The nuns let me work in the chocolate factory a bit. It was just for two hours, twice. But I feel like in heaven because I had been asking for two years!!

I wept after that, I thanked God so much… I can’t express the joy I have within my soul. They trust me, they let me in after such a long struggle… :getholy:

Of course, I wouldn’t say I’m called there. But I want to find out… and it’s a step helping me. I just feel that I’m still attracted after a whole year I’ve been thinking about joining this “ageing” community.

Besides, I will spend Christmas there! 'cause I feel like at home! 😛 :heaven:
 
I am seventeen, and I aspire to become a Religious Studies professor.

Ironically Yours, Blade and Blood
 
I am seventeen, and I aspire to become a Religious Studies professor.

Ironically Yours, Blade and Blood
O thank God! I was just thinking about how there really are no teens in my area that I know about that are discerning. I was starting to feel a little bit discrouged and then I read your post and it was what I needed to see for sure! Thank you so much and may God bless you in your discernment!

JMJ+
~Betsy
 
I just joined this group. I am thinking about religious life as a consecrated nun, within a cloister. I am just beginning to look into the Poor Clares, the Carmelites and the Dominicans. I am not yet sure. I read “A Right to Be Merry” and sort of just knew that was for me!

Veronica
 
I just joined this group. I am thinking about religious life as a consecrated nun, within a cloister. I am just beginning to look into the Poor Clares, the Carmelites and the Dominicans. I am not yet sure. I read “A Right to Be Merry” and sort of just knew that was for me!

Veronica
First off, I love your name! When I become a sister, I want to be Sr. Veronica.

Second, welcome to the forums and especially welcome to this thread! We’re glad to have you. What made you decide cloistered life was your path? I haven’t read “A Right to be Merry” so I’m sorry if that question seems redundant.

Peace,
Joy
 
I just joined this group. I am thinking about religious life as a consecrated nun, within a cloister. I am just beginning to look into the Poor Clares, the Carmelites and the Dominicans. I am not yet sure. I read “A Right to Be Merry” and sort of just knew that was for me!

Veronica
That’s fine! aren’t you afraid of remaining for ever to the same place?

How would you chose your order? Which criteria do you have?

Did you ever see the Benedictines (or Cistercians, Trappists…)
What about the Carthusian nuns?

There are so few people yearning for contemplative orders. I’m glad that you’re here. 😉
 
That’s fine! aren’t you afraid of remaining for ever to the same place?

How would you chose your order? Which criteria do you have?

Did you ever see the Benedictines (or Cistercians, Trappists…)
What about the Carthusian nuns?

There are so few people yearning for contemplative orders. I’m glad that you’re here. 😉
No Carthusian nuns in the US, but there are in Europe, about 75 worldwide. In time, they may outnumber the men!

One Cistercian monastery for women, thriving, a number of habited Benedictines and several Trappistines.

Phatmass has a number of women discerning religious life, especially contemplative life. Various posters are experts on the women’s orders.
 
*To continue the thought… yes look at the various things you like to do [IE would lead you to ministry and apostolate] then what type of prayer your are drawn to [and what type of charism you might be drawn to]

The following website may be of use also it helps to narrow your search. [VOCATIONMATCH.COM] in addition to religious ministries website already listed.

There are many different ways of finding the right community.
Each persons journey is unique. Some may first look to the Orders that attract one. Some may look at apostolates. Good luck, and there are many posts here on this forum with stories of their journeys… blessings and good luck*
There are a lot of different ways to know which order is the right one for you. I would say the first thing to do would be look at what you like to do and what types of prayer you like. Then try and find orders that do that kind of thing and or have that kind of prayer life. After you get it narrowed down a little bit then the most important things to do are PRAY and talk to other people.
I will keep you in my prayers.
JMJ+
~Betsy
Thanks…

I’m really having difficulty finding a congregation. When I tried
looking on the net I always find their apostolate not fitting for me.
It’s like becoming an efficient speaker when you were born to be
an audience. Perhaps, a monastic life’s better for me. Just to narrow it down. I’ve read books about diaries of saints, like that of St. Faustina and St. Therese of Lisieux. I’m attracted to both, looking at my capacity I’d rather pick Carmel and there are Carmelite monasteries here in our country except for the other one. Although I have much time surfing the net but somehow doesn’t help much as I can’t visit them. Another is, it takes every inch of my courage to face and talk to them as I have never done this thing my entire life. Perhaps when I’m done with my obligation I’ll be able to visit, just the carmel. I’m compelled
to forget the other one. 😦 Is it okay to think this way?

By the way, Have a blessed Christmas all of you!! 🙂
 
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