I hate to use colloquialisms, and I hate to be insulting, but: “you first”.
This is not true to reality. The charismatic meeting is about us, and the Mass is about God (The Father is unceasingly praised). What is the use of the gift of tongues in some closed-room Charismatic meeting, among Christians alone? There’s no communication between us and the heathens, no conversions, just Christians talking to Christians in tongues to no end or goal. God gives gifts gratuitously, and always toward a rational end. You know the gift of tongues is absolutely fake or an illusion when it’s practiced in a private Christian meeting.
TONGUES were employed in the Acts of the Apostles IN PUBLIC to CONVERT, not IN PRIVATE to praise God. There is a division and distinction of mode and operation!