Transgender teen who died of an apparent suicide: ‘Fix society. Please.’

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The subject of this Op refused help.
…thought he was helping further some LGBTQ cause. “Fix Society”
You apparently can read minds and/or have access to this individuals medical records. That or your basing your conclusion on what you’ve gathered from news articles and have decided that your professional opinion (I’m assuming you’re a mental health professional) and professional judgment is so great you can accurately conclude that this individual refused help instead of getting substandard and/or ineffective help.
 
“…A final word:
Be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on all of God’s armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies of the devil. For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places.
Therefore, put on every piece of God’s armor so you will be able to resist the enemy in the time of evil.”
Yeah and St. John Paul the Great’s struggles with his health at the end of his life kind of invalidate any sort of argument one just has to pray hard enough to be cured of a physical or mental illness. But of course, that’s assuming your above quote is about curing physical and mental illnesses and not actually about one’s internal spiritual struggles.
 
I can’t believe this thread hasn’t been locked due to so many hateful posts.
 
That’s not entirely accurate. Her parents only allowed her to meet with Christian therapists, all of whom denied transgenderism.
And we really can no more make that conclusion as we can that he refused treatment. All we can really say about his treatment from the information we have available is that it was ineffective.
 
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The subject of this Op refused
help.
…thought he was helping further some LGBTQ cause. “Fix Society”
You apparently can read minds and/or have access to this individuals medical records.
I have no personal connection to this case.

Neither have I got any prior mental health, depression, self-harm “baggage” which might otherwise bias my impartiality.
…That or your basing your conclusion on what you’ve gathered from news articles
Is that not what you also are doing?
 
I can’t believe this thread hasn’t been locked due to so many hateful posts.
I am also in stunned shock.
And we really can no more make that conclusion as we can that he refused treatment. All we can really say about his treatment from the information we have available is that it was ineffective.
I can agree with this. I was basing my comments on posts from this adolescent on Tumblr but I think your conclusion is the safest and most prudent available.
 
I have no personal connection to this case.

Neither have I got any prior mental health, depression, self-harm “baggage” which might otherwise bias my impartiality.

Is that not what you also are doing?
-You terming it “baggage” pretty much declares your bias as not actually being impartial
-So is you demand for an apology from people with a mental illness for having said mental illness. Frankly the only thing lower in my opinion than demanding depressed people apologizing for having depression/being suicidal is trolling nursing homes demanding people with dementia and Alzheimer to apologize for having dementia and Alzheimer.
-And the difference between your conclusion of him refusing treatment and my conclusion that his treatment was ineffective is that my conclusion can be supported by the information we have. He killed himself and had obvious issues with the treatment- it was ineffective/substandard. Your conclusion that he refused treatment- well it was ineffective and, given the lack of any evidence that he refused treatment, your own personal bias.
 
…I’d prefer that the hateful posts result in mod actions to the posters themselves than a lock for everyone.
Yes, I agree. And let the Mods do their job.
If you think a post violates the forum rules - use the report button.
 
What *are *you trying to do here?
Well, I HAVE posted a few bible verses and tried to steer the topic BACK to the theological/moral issues rather than trying to delve deeply into the character and personal motives of fellow posters.
 
I’m not trying to attract flies.
Nor was I calling anyone here a fly. I assumed you were trying to be involved in a conversation. To make a potentially reasonable point in such an unreasonable manner that what you are trying to say is totally obscured seems to be counterproductive.

Is that more clear?
 
Nor was I calling anyone here a fly. I assumed you were trying to be involved in a conversation. To make a potentially reasonable point in such an unreasonable manner that what you are trying to say is totally obscured seems to be counterproductive.

Is that more clear?
Thanks for your concern.
 
The Op says…
…There are a lot of kids out there who are hurting. I think all of us need to consider how we can be good Christian examples to them and comfort them when they need it. It isn’t an easy balance, but this is the kind of thing that can happen when things go wrong.
  1. They are “kids”. To the extent that they ARE kids, they need to be under the control of and obedient to their adult parents. There is a very clear biblical warrant here which says that the parents (and family) are the appropriate authority over whats best for the child - not the LGBTQ lobby or Facebook or Tumblir
  2. They are “hurting”. I accept the invitation of the Op (nay, the moral obligation) to discuss the root cause of their hurting and the hurt caused to others by the ripple/flow-on effects. And I am not going to turn a blind eye to the obvious links this case has to the wider issue of LGBTQ activism and godlessness.
  3. “…this is the kind of thing that can happen when things go wrong” Note the key point here is…when things go WRONG.
Something IS wrong here. But it isnt something that you can blame on God or the moral views of biblical Christianity in relation to sex/gender.
 
Either the teen *was *so mentally ill as to be unable to make good decisions, in which case this act of suicide was simply an awful tragedy; or the teen was *not *so mentally ill as to be incapable of making decisions, in which case he did a horrendously cruel and vindictive thing, not at all heroic.

The *best *we can think is that he was seriously mentally ill and unable to think clearly, and his family was dealing with a seriously mentally ill child and this whole thing is a tragedy. And the best thing to do is to pray for this troubled teen and for his family.

In no way is it possible to think of this act of suicide as heroic.
“an hero” was a reference to a case in the mid 2000s, it was also a rather boorish reference to make.
It seems you imagine that based on that bible verse that it is OK for guys to have their penises turned inside out? That bible verse is only stating that when we are baptised we all become one in Jesus Christ.
There are eunuchs, who have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven.
Agreed.

In fact, it crossed my mind as well, that there is certainly a chance, a copy-cat suicide could occur somewhere, 1 if not more.

A few years ago, there was a rash of teen suicides like as a fad.

I can websearch “town hit by teen suicides”, it brings up different locales around the nation where this has happened.

Just like when there have been some beheadings in the Middle East, somehow, doing that found itself back to our shores though, certainly isolated incidences.
I know transgender people who were concerned that this might cause chain suicide.
Please cite source.
I will look for it.
 
Due to his interrelation with his friends, their parents and social media he came to believe suicide was a noble thing. His parents tried to remove these negative influences from his life and now they are the ones being condemned
Yes. Suicide, even if the motivation for it is psychopathic, is always tragic.
To use a suicide in order to advance a cause by those with an agenda is an intrinsic evil.

Like most, I can only have compassion for those with this kind of disorder, because to loathe one’s body must be a terrible mental disorder to suffer under.
But to the extent that there are people here asserting that suicide is a heroic choice, then it must be asserted with even more vigor how hurtful and hateful and how ultimately pointless suicide is as a solution and how intrinsically evil it is that others would use such a suicide to advance an agenda.
 
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