Two more cardinals back Communion for divorced and remarried

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Im feeling a loss for sure. 😦 i didnt want to be the one to take this route, but after being ignored, this became the result. Perhaps there is a larger lesson to be learned about what happens when the Church ā€˜ignores’…? Perhaps this synod is a detailed evaluation of that -and how the world reacts to feeling ā€˜left behind’.
What route did you take?

I’m confused…:confused:
 
It has to be about the Family… That has to be the main focus, nothing else.

The difference here is that homosexual unions are intrinsically evil. Having two sacramentally wedded wives at the same time is not an intrinsic evil.

Matthew 20: 1 - 16
šŸ‘ Nice citation–there will always been good people who are upset when others get away with things they couldn’t.
 
For the record, i dont want anyone to feel bad for me. I’m happily married to my high school sweetheart, and have been now for 16 years. We have four daughters.

My loss is only through upsetting my fellow Catholics here, after first being scolded and then dismissed. I just dont want anyone here to feel like they’re walking on egg shells with me. I dont want to feel that way about others either, who may not want to hear what i have to say.

…i think some Catholics are just more attuned to ā€˜teaching’ Catholicism, so their focus becomes: if you dont want to accept the truth, then i dust off my sandles to you… They fail to realize that this isnt a lesson -its an expansion of our understanding of Catholic concepts. So rather than viewing this through the short lens, we should be viewing this through the long lens, as a talk amongst equals. A Synod is underway! We’re all in this together as a community.
 
What route did you take?

I’m confused…:confused:
Im talking about the route of ā€˜finding’ a way to legalize a second marriage… And then actually posting it, knowing what turmoil it could possibly create.
 
If this is not what is being advocated then what is the debate about?

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It’s about examining a phenomenon that is begging to be examined. These educated and holy theologians know how that works. No one person on their own can have the ultimate answer, but in working together ie. through synodality… a way may be revealed that hasn’t been realised yet. It’s impossible to know what the ultimate result will be yet, but it is certainly not a case of one persons solution verses another persons solution and whoever has the strongest argument, wins.
 
So we are left with figuring out what ā€œGod Wantsā€? Ok well, he was pretty clear about that when he elevated marriage to a sacrament.🤷 Now, the problem I see here is one that plaugues modern Catholics and Christians of all sort. How do we know what God wants? Well, for too many it just becomes ā€œwhat do I think God wantsā€ And it is not at all funny how that seems to coincide to a libido on so many occasions.
Remember we are talking about educated, experienced and holy theologians putting forward proposals and ideas. They surely aren’t acting on their libidos? They are seeing a thing within the communities of Catholic faithful that seems to be a dark shadow over a natural light. It’s not just a fancy whim that someone has had… it is a real thing. Even a holy thing. We are told by Jesus that we can know the holy by their ā€˜fruits’ and there are families that are thriving in love and holiness and faithful practice shackled only by a failed first marriage. That begs some examination for what the fruits of their marriage is indicating to us. Is it a sign of the spiritual validity of their new marriage and the spiritual invalidity of the first marriage? Perhaps on current technicalities, the flaw can’t be seen but with deeper theological examination that flaw may come to light.

Remember we are not talking about all 2nd marriage scenarios across the board… we are talking about this phenomenon of an obvious fruitfulness in faith of a 2nd marriage that is begging to be released on the deposit of faith.

My question is what if this phenomenon is revealing a truth of Catholic marriage and we successful quash its voice without giving it an airing? Who really wins then?
 
It’s about examining a phenomenon that is begging to be examined. These educated and holy theologians know how that works. No one person on their own can have the ultimate answer, but in working together ie. through synodality… a way may be revealed that hasn’t been realised yet. It’s impossible to know what the ultimate result will be yet, but it is certainly not a case of one persons solution verses another persons solution and whoever has the strongest argument, wins.
IIRC, Paul VI assembled moral theologians to discuss ABC. But even after two votes in favor of ABC and Populorum Progressio to boot, the Pope condemned ABC.
 
IIRC, Paul VI assembled moral theologians to discuss ABC. But even after two votes in favor of ABC and Populorum Progressio to boot, the Pope condemned ABC.
Not only that but the politics of that vote also seem to be at play here. While The Canadian Bishops made a mistake, they obviously had their own beliefs about ABC. Here too we see regional loyalties playing a big part of what is going on. I always have wondered when people say ā€œsoon we will have an African Popeā€ What that would look like. I think someday we will see it. Perhaps in our lifetimes. Germany is a major player in the politics of the subject, from BXVI to Kasper, to the other Bishops. And I don’t think it is a coincidence that the Church in Germany is struggling with some very basic principles. And some very real political and economic issues.

I wonder about this synod’s publicity. This is the modern age we live in. When Bishops get together to debate the essentials of the faith it can get dirty. And Arius Got slapped by St Nicholas in front of Constantine. But indeed tempers and opinions can flare. It does however come down to the Pope, not the synod. But I think Burke has a valid point.šŸ˜‰
 
IIRC, Paul VI assembled moral theologians to discuss ABC. But even after two votes in favor of ABC and Populorum Progressio to boot, the Pope condemned ABC.
But isn’t that a good indicator or how safe synodality is? Through that process the theological objections to contraception were much clearer. The Anglicans had created a confusion about what constituted the evil of contraception by permitting it under certain circumstances. They made it seem like the evil was in not just the end, but the intentions and circumstances. The Church was able to definitively state through the process of theological discussions that the act itself is intrinsically evil. The circumstances and intentions have no bearing on its morality. That confusion still manifests today in Protestantism and in some misguided Catholics when they say that NFP can be used contraceptively. It can’t. That is just the residual confusion of Protestant theology of contraception.

Who knows what will come out of the synod on this issue. Maybe it will become clear that there is no way around it. Maybe some deeper understanding will come to light that gives greater comfort to the people suffering in the situation. But the reality is that this is an open wound in the body of the faithful and something that has to be addressed medicinally.
 
But isn’t that a good indicator or how safe synodality is?
I would say it all depends on your expectations. I think those remarried Catholics who were encouraged with the discussions have their lives mostly laid out for themselves. However will they accept a ruling against them in the end, even if the Church allows them things other than communion?
Through that process the theological objections to contraception were much clearer. The Anglicans had created a confusion about what constituted the evil of contraception by permitting it under certain circumstances. They made it seem like the evil was in not just the end, but the intentions and circumstances. The Church was able to definitively state through the process of theological discussions that the act itself is intrinsically evil. The circumstances and intentions have no bearing on its morality. That confusion still manifests today in Protestantism and in some misguided Catholics when they say that NFP can be used contraceptively. It can’t. That is just the residual confusion of Protestant theology of contraception.
Good points.
 
That is extremely judgmental and not at all what was being advocated by many in the synod. It is puzzling how you made that huge leap to characterize these people, and even more problematic to state it as though it is true.
It is true by definition. The church has always held that if the first marriage was valid then the second one is adulterous.
I have read the book, and I know the position of Card. Kasper and those who agreed with him. He believed that there may be an opening (his exact terminology) for those who truly repented of the tragic mistake of their first marriage…
The first marriage may have been a mistake, but it is the second one that is adulterous. What Cardinal Kasper is trying to do is change the nature of the sin involved in a second marriage. He would redefine it to be the failure of the first - which was a one time event that may be absolved - rather than what it is today, which is the ongoing sin of adultery. Since the adulterous relations continue, that sin cannot be absolved, and unless grave sins are absolved one may not receive communion.

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Permission granted under special circumstances, where the Priesthood would either allow or deny a 2nd sacramental marriage without divorce being a part of the first sacramental marriage.
How is this to be done without either ignoring or reversing the doctrines involved? Which of these doctrines would you recommend doing away with?
  • A second marriage after a divorce from a valid first marriage is adulterous.
  • Adultery is a grave sin.
  • A person in a state of grave sin cannot receive communion until the sin is absolved.
  • A sin cannot be absolved absent contrition.
  • Contrition includes the intention not to repeat the sin.
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It is true by definition. The church has always held that if the first marriage was valid then the second one is adulterous.
The first marriage may have been a mistake, but it is the second one that is adulterous. What Cardinal Kasper is trying to do is change the nature of the sin involved in a second marriage. He would redefine it to be the failure of the first - which was a one time event that may be absolved - rather than what it is today, which is the ongoing sin of adultery. Since the adulterous relations continue, that sin cannot be absolved, and unless grave sins are absolved one may not receive communion.

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You are forgetting that the church allows the remarriage to stay in tact, especially for the sake of children conceived in that union, with one stipulation only … abstain from sex. If that is done, they are lawfully permitted to receive communion. No ifs or ands.

It is still, IMO, very judgmental to assume they are ***unrepentant ***sinners!

Consider this in your spare moments. What exactly is a bond of marriage? Is it not a ā€œcovenant?ā€ Aren’t covenants a spiritual bonding in love which cannot be broken? If the church permits the very real covenant of the second marriage to remain, why would a material bonding (sex) have anything to do with the spiritual covenant which is even deeper than the material/physical? I suspect that some are coming to that realization, when the full aspect of marriage is being explored.

Jesus always placed more emphasis on the ā€œheartā€ and the interior motive, than the exterior. ā€œIf you are angry with your brother, you are already liable to judgment.ā€ And,
ā€œHe who lusts after another has already committed adultery in the heart.ā€
 
It has to be about the Family… That has to be the main focus, nothing else.
Ignoring the truth can hardly be beneficial to anyone.
Having two sacramentally wedded wives at the same time is not an intrinsic evil.
If adultery is intrinsically evil then so is having two wives. Nor is it exactly clear how one could possibly be sacramentally married to two wives, or how this would be significantly different than bigamy.

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You are forgetting that the church allows the remarriage to stay in tact, especially for the sake of children conceived in that union, with one stipulation only … abstain from sex. If that is done, they are lawfully permitted to receive communion. No ifs or ands.
Of course; that’s the situation we have today. This restriction, however, is apparently seen as too onerous, and the debate is about how to eliminate it.
It is still, IMO, very judgmental to assume they are ***unrepentant ***sinners!
Repentance must include contrition, and contrition must include the intention not to repeat the sin.
Consider this in your spare moments. What exactly is a bond of marriage? Is it not a ā€œcovenant?ā€ Aren’t covenants a spiritual bonding in love which cannot be broken? If the church permits the very real covenant of the second marriage to remain, why would a material bonding (sex) have anything to do with the spiritual covenant which is even deeper than the material/physical? I suspect that some are coming to that realization, when the full aspect of marriage is being explored.

Jesus always placed more emphasis on the ā€œheartā€ and the interior motive, than the exterior. ā€œIf you are angry with your brother, you are already liable to judgment.ā€ And,
ā€œHe who lusts after another has already committed adultery in the heart.ā€
I’ll ask again: which of the five teachings I just listed in post 901 needs to be reversed to allow communion for those who divorced and remarried and who continue having sexual relations? No more fuzziness about the ā€œheartā€, spiritual bonds, covenants, etc. Some specific teaching would have to change. Pick one.

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Of course; that’s the situation we have today. This restriction, however, is apparently seen as too onerous, and the debate is about how to eliminate it.
Repentance must include contrition, and contrition must include the intention not to repeat the sin.
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What sin must they not repeat? Must they separate? No. The Church does not require that. Again, you are judging that they are unrepentant by repeating the sin of having sex. How do you know this?

Please hear me. We are not talking about those who repeatedly have sexual relations. For those who do NOT intend to have sex, there is no restriction for them to receive communion. I do not wish to plead my case here. It is up to the councilors at the Synod to work out.

Today’s reading in the Divine Office:
ā€œAlways speak and act as men destined for judgment under the law of freedom. Merciless is the judgment on the man who has not shown mercy; but mercy triumphs over judgment.ā€ James 2:12-13

By the way, when you go to confession and say, ā€œI firmly resolve, with the help of the grace, to sin no moreā€¦ā€ Do you forever not sin again? If a couple resolves not to have sex in order to live as brother and sister in keeping with the legislation of the church, and sometimes relapse into having sex, does their confession become worthless – does yours? Is there a lack of sincere resolve or ā€œunrepentance?ā€ For either of you? Do you mean it at the time you confess? Are you therefore, unrepentant if you fall into sin later on?
 
What sin must they not repeat?
The sin at issue is adultery. It is not remarriage.
Must they separate? No. The Church does not require that. Again, you are judging that they are unrepentant by repeating the sin of having sex. How do you know this?
It isn’t necessary to judge anyone. You yourself recognized the condition necessary for someone who has remarried to receive communion.the church allows the remarriage to stay in tact, especially for the sake of children conceived in that union, with one stipulation only … abstain from sex.
We are not talking about those who repeatedly have sexual relations.
Of course we are, otherwise where’s the issue?
For those who do NOT intend to have sex, there is no restriction for them to receive communion. I do not wish to plead my case here.
What case is there to plead? People who discontinue sexual relations may receive now. This whole kerfuffle only makes sense if a change has been suggested…and that change would be to allow those who do intend to have sex to also receive communion.
By the way, when you go to confession and say, ā€œI firmly resolve, with the help of the grace, to sin no moreā€¦ā€ Do you forever not sin again? If a couple resolves not to have sex in order to live as brother and sister in keeping with the legislation of the church, and sometimes relapse into having sex, does their confession become worthless – does yours? Is there a lack of sincere resolve or ā€œunrepentance?ā€ For either of you? Do you mean it at the time you confess? Are you therefore, unrepentant if you fall into sin later on?
No, but this isn’t the point either. I don’t think you really understand what it is that Cardinal Kasper is proposing.

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And on a personal note, why should this hypothetical couple’s mistake be afforded the same validity as my devout, Catholic marriage? Doesn’t that really demean my marriage? My sacrament and my sacrifice of living a Holy life?
Well, no it doesn’t do that. I was led to believe that God judges us all seperately and not one against the other. I would be afraid to be judged against so many people that I won’t try to name any as an example.
 
Well, no it doesn’t do that. I was led to believe that God judges us all seperately and not one against the other. I would be afraid to be judged against so many people that I won’t try to name any as an example.
Well, the Church gives us examples. The saints. The reason this is revealed to us is to help us to achieve heaven. God judges fairly and justly.

What exactly are you getting at? Judgement is relative?
 
No, but this isn’t the point either. I don’t think you really understand what it is that Cardinal Kasper is proposing.

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Cardinal Kasper was asked to present a case for the synod by Pope Francis. He advocates on behalf of the very real human suffering in this situation and suggests a possible solution. Cardinal Burke and others advocate for their heartfelt love of tradition and suggest no discussion is even needed on the subject. Like even the amateur highschool debate process… two voices representing different sensibilities and perspectives on the issue. Somewhere within the various perspectives of these theologians and holy men, either a new way could be revealed to address the conundrum if the Holy Spirit wishes… or some deeper understanding of the tradition will emerge and as we know, sometimes deeper understanding is all that is needed to be the salve on a weeping sore.

I personally believe that if anything is reviewed in this situation, it will be the understanding of annulments in the light of evidence of the Holy Spirit at work in these 2nd marriages. I can’t see a situation where the first marriage won’t be addressed by some declaration of nullity.

Those who attack the process of the synod by demonising Cardinal Kasper with strawman arguments, actively work against the Church and her mission for their own very human agendas.
 
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