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MikeInVA
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How dismissive of the many good priests we have.It’s that the priesthood is inherently unattractive to good heterosexual men with a mature approach to their sexualities.
How dismissive of the many good priests we have.It’s that the priesthood is inherently unattractive to good heterosexual men with a mature approach to their sexualities.
As a child in the 1960’sI knew about catholics sexual perverts. It was obvious that the code of silence was in effect.that Pope John Paul II had been informed that the then-bishop shared a bed with young men but decided nonetheless to app
It’s not just that “not all” victims don’t perpetuate pattern, the overwhelming majority do not. Many also become protectors of children and advocates for those who were abused.many (though not all) victims perpetuate the pattern as adults.
It’s also true.How dismissive of the many good priests we have.
I don’t disagree. But the issues are not helping and at the rate our abbey’s population is declining, the lack of vocations will kill it off just as effectively as any attempt to abolish it.If we abolish monasticism, our religion ceases to exist. I don’t think I’m being dramatic by saying that. I’m sure the Orthodox would agree - and even wage war to defend it in their case.
From a monk friend’s analysis, I can’t say the number is “half”, but it has been in the past “too many”. I do think they’re more careful selecting candidates these days, but I don’t see too many young men interested to begin with. We have a saying in French “là où est l’homme, est l’hommerie”. There’s no direct translation but roughly “where we find man, we find man’s foibles”. It is as true of monasteries as any other human endeavour.Let’s say half of all priests and half of all monks are emotionally wrecked, emotionally stunted, and sexually immature / immoral. I reject that stat, but let’s say it’s true.
We all have our blind spots. Manifestly, this was JPII’s.how could such a persistent mistake be made regarding all the scandals going on below him? This is a problem that is hard to answer.
The Pope has the charism of infallibility when it comes to matters of faith and morals when he is intentionally engaging that charism. He is not impeccable…he is a sinner…he is human…and yes, he makes mistakes. I don’t see this as a theological problem, but a structural/management/ organizational problem. Even naivete could be a descriptor.Agreed, but it begs the question; either JPII either knew about it or was asleep at the wheel. If he simply believed the lie or was fooled then that raises a theological problem which is for someone who should be filled with or in tune with the Holy Spirit as leader of the Church; how could such a persistent mistake be made regarding all the scandals going on below him? This is a problem that is hard to answer.
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Understand, and realize its a different norm than the Western Church. Point taken.A married and celibate priesthood is the norm in the Eastern Church.
Except there is no marriage in heaven…there is celibacy in heaven. And yes, Jesus did praise celibacy in Mt 19.Celibacy is not a greater calling. It is a different calling. Jesus speaks very rarely about celibacy, but quite frequently about marriage.
Certainly good reasons, but also there are good reasons as I stated above. (There are some married Western priest…typically converts from Anglicanism…so its not 100%. A practice, not a dogma)The Catholic Church has lost the gifts of many, many married men that would have been great priests and along with that it lost the gifts, service, and insight of their wives.