The elephant in the room is that a
Privilege is not the same thing as a
Right.
Lawrence v. Texas already settled that states can’t prohibit gays from arranging their private romantic lives as they see fit between consenting adults. There’s no legislation or legal decision on the table to change that. No one is “imposing their religion” on you by restricting what you can or can not do in that regard. You have the right as a private citizen to go about your business without the authority of the State hindering you.
Civil Marriage involves two things: a contract between private parties and the award of public benefits. The matters of contract between private parties is not contested. Our system lets you contrive and enforce just about any contract you could imagine. So this really boils down to the public benefits - which are
privileges handed out by the State.
The idea that “opposite-sex couples can get these benefits but same-sex couples can’t” is a rhetorical deception. There are millions of opposite-sex partnerships that don’t enjoy any such benefits and never can. Every non-sexual sort of partnership are denied the status of Civil Marriage. Even heterosexual sexual partnerships are denied that status on the basis of things such as polygamy or incest - and with clear reason: as a matter of public records these partnerships can not provide the
Public Benefit the State was trying to put an incentive on.
Without that Public Interest there are no grounds for the State to award privileges or benefits via Civil Marriage.
What’s really in play here is ignoring the requirement of Public Interest in Civil Marriage and instead using the Government to impel sanction, assent, and subsidy of a homosexual lifestyle from a Public that does not consent to such of its own volition.