I also recently finished this. My mom is elderly and we are having to help her with many things. It gave me a renewed energy to focus on what is important to Mom and support her with those desires. She is not near death, but at that age where she no longer drives, needs someone with her, etc. Example: she is 86 years old at hates mamograms. There has been no history in our family and she decided she’s not going for the test because she wouldn’t take treatment anyway. She hates the dentist and they had her coming 4 times a year for cleanings. She decided once is year suits her.