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whatevergirl
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I think being proactive instead of reactive, is a start, for our government. Many people need education to help them make better decisions…to know that they don’t need to have babies just to make money or to survive. That marriage is important…to not have a baby without a husband…etc…these are things that some of us know and take for granted, but many people are not taught this growing up. I think continuously putting a bandaid on a shot gun wound, isn’t the answer. We need to offer some preventative help–and see if that works. It takes time, and effort…but maybe put money into the public school system, or boys and girls of america clubs, etc…to educate boys and girls to something other than ‘getting by,’ would be a good start.Again, how do you determine who gets the aid or doesn’t? Do you make judgement calls based on morality? WHo determines what is moral? I know that as a more liberal Christian, I may have different values than a conservative Christian? or an Atheist? etc. Who’s set of morals do we use to evaluate each situation?
also, for the woman who gets knocked up twice, by two different men: do we give her health insurance and food for the first child, but when she has the second say, "Well! We thought you just made a mistake before and were deserving of our help. But now, we see that you are obviously a slut, so your second and third children will do without. (while the first is receiving benefits? or do you take the benefits away from all the children?)
Do you see the slippery slope that happens when you get into this sort of thing?