I know I havent been a part of this conversation, but was reading over some of these posts and felt like commenting…
I think its more than likely, if joe had lived the type of life he did to get to hell, God was NOT a big part of his life while alive, so that leads me to believe hell is not necessarily the horrible place of torture its said to be…if someone lived their entire life without God in it, Im fairly sure they would be content in an afterlife without God in it.
However, I believe there have been people who end up in hell that DO regret it, BUT I believe they can call out and ask God for salvation, even after death. The main point is, right when we were created, we are IMMORTAL beings, so our souls never die, if Gods teachings are accurate, they would apply to our immortal nature, not our earthly mortal part…IMO, its kind of odd why God would create immortal beings and then say, oh, but you only have a very short time (earthly lives) to make up your mind about what you believe and what you want to do, that doesnt make sense to me, its more likely everything he said in the bible and all his teachings were intended for our immortal souls, everything is immortal, including our free will, so we can change, even after death.