Yes it is but as the Catholic faith says in it’s Catachism; Christianity is about community. That is the whole point of the Liturgy to celebrate the Eucharist in community. The fact is for many parishes the community ends after the Eucharist is taken. Cain’s point is taken in this type of statement (am I my brother’s keeper?) I would say yes you are. This failure of many catholics needs to be fixed and honestly it is becoming fixed in some places. But I would say this (including myself) is the major reason people leave the RCC.
actually that is one of the serious errors about the Mass nowadays.
it is NOT primarily about community. the Eucharist is more about the sacrifice on Calvary, His true body and blood being present, the worship of God directly in a more vertical structure, while the horizontal structure of being in community is, if anything, secondary. if people knew this, truly believed, and had the reverence for the Eucharist that our holy fathers have been talking about, the community aspect would flow automatically.
my assumption is that this backwards perspective is why it seems like we are failing. protestants seem to do much better because the focus is more on the gathering, so they are able to focus more on what the people want, which unfortunately is often the quality of preaching, music, etc. with us, the source and summit are not these things, it is the actual presence of God coming to meet us, the Eucharist, heaven actually coming down to earth to be with us. it doesn’t matter how bad the preaching is, how bad the music is, or how much money is given. all of Salvation History, all of Creation, the entire Bible, unfolds before our eyes and in our presence. if people don’t see these things, it is just a boring gathering.
forgive me if i am explaining it very poorly, but the deeper you go, the more this becomes apparent, the more God’s splendor and the awesomeness of our faith comes alive 100-fold. when this becomes apparent, the entertaining Sunday service of the non-Catholic becomes a spec of dust in comparison. (although fellowship, praise and worship, Bible study, and community activities are wonderful ways of living the faith
outside of the highest form of church worship - the Holy Mass.)