These questions are what my inquiry really is all about. I am trying to find the One True Religion (assuming there is such a thing), the Religion that is more true that any other Religion.
Dear Slowly,
I was glad to see your posting: I too am seeking an answer to these questions.
I would like to comment on several things, and then perhaps look closely at the whole thread, for your question is honest and legitimate.
(1) The God that all Christians know as Yaweh, Jehovah, etc., is believed to be a God of love, of lovingkindness, who has made each one of us divine (in his image) and equally divine. I feel certain that the Christian God of love is not inclined to stuff people into hell (does hell exist?) That means people who are trudging along the path of life as best they can, can count on God’s mercy in the end. (This is my opinion, based on listening, and is certainly not doctrinally sound for many Catholic Christians. But my Catholic mentor made the proposal.)
(2) My global professional travels have brought me into contact with many religions. I learned from them all, visited their places of worship, learned about their faith, watched their confident smiles as they knew that - even under dire circumstances - they were being borne up by their own choice of faith. And I respected that faith: it was their choice.
(3) When I was forced to stop travelling a while ago, I looked back on my experiences and decided that I needed to look to my own soul. Where would I choose to search? Which number would I bet on? There is no way you can make the choice rationally. You have to go with your heart. There is no One Absolute Truth, despite the conviction of people of faith, most of them in the Christian and Islamic paradigms.
My soul (perhaps that is the right word) told me that as I had been born and baptised a Christian, and because Christ had walked the walk with me all the years in Africa and Asia, and because I owed the God I knew a big debt for bringing me through a hundred potential calamities, I wanted to commit more profoundly to my original Christianity. It was a feeling, not a rational choice. I could have chosen anything: I chose Christianity. And not only did I choose this faith, but I chose - for a variety of reasons not all of which have to do with belief, faith, doctrine etc - the Catholic Church to guide me through the Eye of the Needle. I thought, I read, I prayed and listened, and thenI chose.
But I remember too, always, that we are chosen by God from birth, from the time we are born - that is, we of the Christian faith. So perhaps God was calling me home, in response to my need.
(4) I am truly convinced, despite much advice to the contrary, that the principal faiths - Islam, Judaism, Christianity, Hinduism, Jainism among others - are all acceptable to God. They reflect the belief and value systems of various people in different contexts which evolved over millennia. People who are not (Catholic) Christians are not pagan, they are not uncivilised (one poster insists that Gandhi was a slightly civilised civilised pagan), they have a right to their own beliefs (and this right is confirmed in national and international codes of law). For billions of people, faith of some kind represents a set of rules for guiding life decisions and a guarantee of some kind of afterlife (whether you want it or not, as in the case of Tibetan Buddhists). (Did you know by the way that Islam, Christianity and Judaism all grew up in the Golden Triangle in what Armstrong calls the Axial Period. I think this is not a coincidence.)
(5) Do not use worry about everlasting life as a reason for choosing a faith, I would suggest. You will never know for sure if it is guaranteed or not, and so there is absolutely no point in worrying about it.
There are all kinds of criteria: choose those that are right for you, and listen and learn, as you are doing now. Right now as a Christian-cum-Catholic I assume that my afterlife is looked after by our God of love, and that it is in this life that I must follow the example of Christ in
doing unto others as I would have them do unto me: and that includes feeding support for the hungry, medical support for HIV patients, educational support for HIV orphans, or just smiling when someone smiles at me.
Let me go think, and I shall get back to you. If there are specific questions, I would be happy to help, as my search is taking me up and down mountains! Perhaps we may be able to learn a bit from one another, as well as from those who have been kind in giving helpful advice.
Nerf
Christ work through me
Christ stand with me
Christ be in me