DeniseNY:
No snark at all, there, this time. I really did mean that I have no desire to change your mind or argue with you. You seem to be in a comfortable spot and I don’t want to disturb it.
You seem quite intent to portray every position as merely an interpretation or opinion or “comfortable spot,” as if it is indeterminable whether anyone can make a verifiably true statement or proposition.
Epistemic relativism is what you seem to be promoting. That is foreign to Catholicism because the fundamental assumption in epistemic relativism is that there is no way of knowing what is true with any certainty.
The Church holds the position that the truth is discoverable and CAN be known with certainty. In particular, even though revealed truths (revelation) cannot be known through human endeavour they can be known to be true with certainty because they have been revealed by God himself.
This is not to say that one position is necessarily correct, but the point is that positions are arguable and can be determined to be correct or errant.
Epistemic relativism entails that arguments or discussions are futile because truth doesn’t exist or, at least, cannot be known.
Ergo, this might explain why you are reticent or “not interested” in discussing positions with others, i.e., you don’t think there is a true position to begin with, just personal opinions that differ.