Some people are already in a marriage or getting there, or happily single. Others — and there is a growing number — are singles who would like to change their condition. Whichever sex us singles happen to be, we end up having to take the opposite sex’s attraction into account. Or rather we don’t really have to, but it’s often having to choose between our own comfort and attraction. Personally, I tend to choose somewhere midway through. I don’t disregard the other sex’s attraction, but I don’t normally make everything revolve around it either, though if I choose to ignore it, I also choose the consequences (basically the matter of not getting to have the cake and eat it too, or at least not always and not fully).