You can't be both a Catholic and a Feminist

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La Chiara:
Ahhhh, that is exactly what I surmised! He’s a young fella, mad at women in general. Probably just broke up with his girlfriend who is a feminist!:banghead: C’mon kev7 if you share your views on this with the young women you want to date, you won’t be getting many dates. :tsktsk:
Maybe he’s just threatened by gals who speak their minds.
 
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tcay584:
I must ask…why do you need masculanism?
Can’t we just all focus on what God has given us…EACH OTHER…(you bloody lout). I know you probably don’t see the affection (it’s one of my feminist traits), but if you dare to be as Jesus was, and look below the surface…you’ll actually find someone who’s struggling…just like you…who wants to do the best for her family…just like you…who loves God…just like you. So quit being such a goober! We’re all human!
Affection is not a feminst trait! Now you are saying that being a feminist is part of being a woman. How can you say that God created women with feminsts traits?

I don’t really have an issue with what you have said. I just can’t understand why women need to look outside the church for support that the church already provides. The church gives us many teachings in defence of women and in support of women. It would just be nice to see a woman fall back on those teachings and not the pluristic concept of feminism for their identity.

maybe this site will help you girls.

wf-f.org/Docs.html

anywyay. I think I’m going to stick to my Bucket of fruit example. and then have a beer. 🙂
 
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kev7:
You all have yet to prove to me that
  1. Doing the work of Christ under the name of Feminism isn’t wrong in the eyes of God.
2.That some poor woman couldn’t become distracted with the other “bad teachings of feminism” and become disgruntled with the catholic church.
You’re the one that started this whole thing–isn’t the burden of proof on you?
 
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kev7:
You all have yet to prove to me that
  1. Doing the work of Christ under the name of Feminism isn’t wrong in the eyes of God.
2.That some poor woman couldn’t become distracted with the other “bad teachings of feminism” and become disgruntled with the catholic church.
  1. You are correct…doing the work of Christ under any other name but the name of Christ, no matter what, is wrong. It denigrates what Christ has done for all Children of God…Male and Female.
  2. Some poor woman??? What about all the other folks (male) who get distracted with any number of “bad teachings” and become disgruntled with the teachings of the Catholic Church? Can you say Luther…Calvin…etc??? How many women, throughout histroy, have led as many AWAY from the Church as men? Do you think women have some special proclivity towards schism? You misguided, misogynistic person! You are implying that I, as a female, need you, as a male, to “guide” me to the light of Christ.
  3. Please tell me you are simply…and I put the emphasis on “simply” trying to be argumentative. I cannot, and will not believe that a good Catholic man, who understands the teachings of the Church, could spout this vitriol.
 
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aurora77:
You’re the one that started this whole thing–isn’t the burden of proof on you?
Ahh… do I have to repeat everything I said! I already proved those two points.
 
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kev7:
Ahh… do I have to repeat everything I said! I already proved those two points.
No, you got whupped by the “feminists” on this board.
 
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tcay584:
Michael Welter:
Of course Feminism can be defined. I already did that. Apparently you rejected it, but that doesn’t stop me from defining it. 🙂
Ahhhh…you shall define and accept as you see fit? Kind of like those Cafeteria Catholics ( Don’t for one second think i’m not faithful)…respond to what you like…leave the rest behind. Respond, Michael. Be true to your faith…or are ya just too scairt! I am female…I am just as “good” (not more… just “as” good) as you…and as worthy of consideration. After all…I am made in the image of God…just like you. You know…if you were another female spewing this vitriol…I’d toss you over just as fast! ***I ***don’t discriminate.
Actually, that wasn’t my definition that I gave. It was out of the dictionary. And I accept it as a valid definition. I didn’t mean to offend anyone, and appologize if I did.
 
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kev7:
Affection is not a feminst trait! Now you are saying that being a feminist is part of being a woman. How can you say that God created women with feminsts traits?

I don’t really have an issue with what you have said. I just can’t understand why women need to look outside the church for support that the church already provides. The church gives us many teachings in defence of women and in support of women. It would just be nice to see a woman fall back on those teachings and not the pluristic concept of feminism for their identity.

maybe this site will help you girls.

wf-f.org/Docs.html

anywyay. I think I’m going to stick to my Bucket of fruit example. and then have a beer. 🙂
Correct…affection is a human trait. Women as well as men can display it if they choose. I must wonder what “traits” you speak of when you describe (or actually, you don’t) feminist traits?
There are many women (and men) outside the Church who are desperately trying to find something of meaning to them. They (men and women) can’t look to the Church, because then the light of God would shine on their sins…and who in this day and age says that that’s ok? No, they hide, they lurk, they disparage, they denigrate. All in pathetic hope that they’ll escape God’s judgement. And you are now lumping all women with a shred of self worth (God given) together. Why despise women summarily? Way to go Dude!!! Score one for dis-unity in the Church! Which side are you on, man?
 
Michael Welter:
Actually, that wasn’t my definition that I gave. It was out of the dictionary. And I accept it as a valid definition. I didn’t mean to offend anyone, and appologize if I did.

Oh gosh…I am so incredibly sorry!!! I actually wasn’t responding to you…well, I was, but I didn’t mean to…not that way. Gee, please accept my most sincere apologies! I thought I was responding to someone else. D’oh!
 
tcay584 said:
1) You are correct…doing the work of Christ under any other name but the name of Christ, no matter what, is wrong. It denigrates what Christ has done for all Children of God…Male and Female.

Good I’m glad you agree. That was one of my main points early on in the thread.
  1. Some poor woman??? What about all the other folks (male) who get distracted with any number of “bad teachings” and become disgruntled with the teachings of the Catholic Church?
Men can fall pray to the same thing and I agree with you. Just don’t deny the fact that a woman can also.
Can you say Luther…Calvin…etc??? How many women, throughout histroy, have led as many AWAY from the Church as men?
why are you asking me this when you don’t even know the answer to it.
Do you think women have some special proclivity towards schism?
no I do not think that and I never have said such a thing.
You misguided, misogynistic person!
um… ok.
You are implying that I, as a female, need you, as a male, to “guide” me to the light of Christ.
I am inferring that women need other women to guide them to the light of Christ. And when you hide behind another doctrine other then the catholic church (feminism) you are not helping .
matters.

If you have a problem that a MAN, a catholic man, a man that prays to God everyday, might have a valid point regarding YOU as a catholic woman then I can only pray for you.
 
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kev7:
nah… just stirred up a hornets nest… 🙂
Oh, puleeze, that would assume we took you seriously!

No offense, but your initial assertion was ridiculous and your support has satisfied no one but yourself. When you have some real evidence–tied to the Catechism, the Bible, and teaching, let me know. Heck, there is not even a generally accepted definition of what “feminist” represents.
 
La Chiara:
Oh, puleeze, that would assume we took you seriously!

No offense, but your initial assertion was ridiculous and your support has satisfied no one but yourself. When you have some real evidence–tied to the Catechism, the Bible, and teaching, let me know. Heck, there is not even a generally accepted definition of what “feminist” represents.
and you are the queen of the nest 🙂

What is the purpose of being a feminist? I just don’t get it. Please help me to understand. What is it about that catholic church that is lacking? Why do you need to be a feminist?

When you start to explain why you need to be feminist and why you can’t simply be just a catholic and defend women from that perspective I will take you seriously.

But you haven’t done that. All you have done is reject all that I am saying because I am a man telling you a woman about something that could be wrong in the eyes of God.

I already had one woman on here agree with me that it is wrong to promote the teachings of christ under the banner of feminism (another ISM… another religion).
 
Kev7,
Hubby tells me that I must go to bed now, and that sounds much better than continuing this (I’ll check back in the morning, glutton for punishment that I am…unless I’m suspended…can I plead PMS?).
Kev7, If you would just change your choice of the word “feminism” to “feminist extremism” I would be most content, and could sleep well.
This is a case where I wish people could say the taboo word “feminazi” or “crazy man hater”…because that would cause a lot less hurt. At least I can understand that sentiment (in my little estrogen wracked brain).
All this PC silliness is doing more harm than good…
Please Kev7, continue to pray for sorry, misguided women like me who just want a fair chance.
Sweet Dreams to all!
 
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kev7:
You all have yet to prove to me that
  1. Doing the work of Christ under the name of Feminism isn’t wrong in the eyes of God.
2.That some poor woman couldn’t become distracted with the other “bad teachings of feminism” and become disgruntled with the catholic church.
You sound more than a bit disgruntled my dear.
~ Kathy ~
 
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