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JimG
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Yes, and in making all such relationships roughly equal under the law, such legislation would inevitably devalue marriage as an institution. If anyone can have a civilly recognized union essentially equivalent to marriage, then marriage is no longer important.The assumption seems to be that any legal recognition of same-sex couples is putting them on the level of marriage and is approving sexual behavior. But it would be quite possible to create legislation that allowed people who are deeply involved in one another’s lives to have certain kinds of benefits as a couple or group. This legislation could be used by same-sex couples, by cohabiting couples, by polygamists–but it could also be used by people who have no sexual relationship with each other at all.
It is not clear to me that such an approach is condemned by the Church, although the document to which you linked doesn’t consider it as a possibility.
Ediwn
Indeed, if a society wishes to recognize homosexual marriage as equivalent to heterosexual marriage, there is no reason whatever not to extend the same benefits to any persons wishing to obtain the benefits of marriage for their particular variety of union–polygamists, polyandrists, non-sexual unions such as business partners, mother-daughter, mother-son, or other family member groupings. Those living in a commune might wish to all enjoy the benefits of group marriage. Even pederasts would no doubt wish to obtain the benefits of marriage for their pairings, except for the impediment of age of consent laws.
But all such groupings are not equally beneficial to society. There is no reason for society to give prefential treatment to unions which are detrimental rather than beneficial to society.
It was precisely because marriage is important that it has historically been recognized in civil law and given special privileges. Marriage and family is the bedrock of civilization. If society no longer considers marriage important to civilization, there’s no need to give civil preference to any particular type of union. But the results of neglect of marriage will inevitably be played out in civilizational decay.