I’m reluctant to post on here as I find this site sketchy, but I will because the question is so good and one that I, as a practicing Catholic, have spent much time pondering and praying over. You can check my thread history and one of the first post I started was the acceptance there is a hell.
The conclusion I’ve drawn is that it comes down to an atheist lament which is, “because I end up in hell, how can you ever be happy?” OK, sounds harsh but let me explain. First, I don’t believe all atheists end up in hell and I also don’t know what the requirements are to end up in hell.
The first assumption the atheist in that quote is making is that Evil does not exist. I’ve come to accept, very late in life, that Evil does exist. So, for Heaven to be Heaven could Evil exist there? Think about it, so much of the problems in this world are caused by Evil that were the Evil to go to Heaven they would bring those problems there. Hence, endangering the peace and well-being of many people in Heaven who have already been victimized. So, clearly there has to be a cut off point where some people don’t belong in Heaven for Heaven to continue to be Heaven. Again, I don’t know what that cut-off point is.
The second assumption that, that atheist makes in that quote is the question of personal accountability. While the atheist would more than likely never be happy or respect me for the path I take, I am supposed to feel guilty for the path they are taking. That’s uneven, and a double standard. In my innocence I would want more for the atheist, but I’m aware that there is nothing to little I can do to change their decisions including all their ramifications. Again, this is even if it is present in my own family. I have to use the serenity prayer to change the things I can, to accept the things that I cannot change and the wisdom to know the difference.
There is more, but I will see if you respond. Ultimately, I am a practicing Catholic rebuilding my relationship with God after I came to accept there is a Hell. Through prayers for Wisdom and Discernment, I’ve come to accept that while God is loving, merciful; there is nothing he nor I can do about the free will of a soul who delves into Evil.
If this post reached you, anyone on this forum, do what I have been doing and pray the Divine Mercy Chaplet daily. Right now is a time of a lot of Evil in my opinion. So, pray for the Sinner for the mistakes they are making and to repent and atone.