Thanks guys for all your patience in trying to exactly explain a miraculous event. Not an easy task to put into words, the works of God.
This one is what finally helped me to understand. I know many of you used these words, but I guess it was the way the article layed it all out that helped me to understand. I post the link again for others.
catholicapologetics.org/ap060400.htm
Here is the end of the article that finally brought understanding to my brain. The whole article has Scripture and church documents but due to space I will just paste the words that finally made it through. It was the comparing to baptism and comfirmation that did it.
Baptism and Confirmation and the Baptism of the Holy Spirit
Roman Catholic Christians look to the teaching authority of the Church as the sure guide to belief on matters of faith and morals. The latest teaching Council of the Church was Vatican Council II.
The Church emphasizes that a person becomes a Christian and first receives the Holy Spirit through faith and Baptism.
Paul’s teaching implies that the Holy Spirit is normally first given or conferred to individuals through belief and water baptism.
The Apostles in the Acts of the Apostles appear to have understood the difference between the presence of the Holy Spirit in Baptism and in a later empowering. If a person were only baptized and did not receive the fullness of the Holy Spirit, the Apostles would pray and lay their hands on them, begging God to send his Holy Spirit in greater measure. Acts 8:14-18 Now when the apostles in Jerusalem heard that Samaria had accepted the word of God, they sent them Peter and John, who went down and prayed for them, that they might receive the holy Spirit, for it had not yet fallen upon any of them; they had only been baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus. Then they laid hands on them and they received the holy Spirit. When Simon saw that the Spirit was conferred by the laying on of the apostles’ hands …
The Catholic Christian sacrament of Confirmation originates with this practice.
Water Baptism is not the only time or way that the Holy Spirit comes to live in a person; but the New Testament indicates the importance of being baptized into Christ and thus being sealed with the Holy Spirit.
Roman Catholic Christians believe that they are first born again of water and the Holy Spirit when they receive the sacrament of Baptism. Catholic Christians also believe that Baptism only begins the work of mission of the Holy Spirit in the life of the believer.
The person who is truly “born again” and “Spirit-filled” is not necessarily the one who has had an extraordinary experience of the Holy Spirit at some point (though this is a blessing), but the person who lives and “walks” with the Holy Spirit; who has put to death the “works of the flesh” and manifests the “fruits of the Spirit.” This is what it means to be a “new creation” in Christ Jesus - “the old things have passed away; behold, new things have come” (2 Cor 5:17)
Much today is heard of being “baptized in the Spirit.” The expression comes from Sacred Scripture. Mt 3:11 He (Jesus) will baptize you with the holy Spirit and fire. Mk 1:8 I (John) have baptized you with water; he (Jesus) will baptize you with the holy Spirit. Lk 3:16 He (Jesus) will baptize you with the holy Spirit and fire. Jn 1:33 On whomever you see the Spirit come down and remain, he is the one who will baptize with the holy Spirit.
**The Roman Catholic Church has never claimed that the work of the Holy Spirit is limited exclusively to Baptism. **
**Confirmation is the Catholic Church’s official prayer for the Holy Spirit to empower a person to spread the gospel, to live a fervent Christian life, and share more fully in the mission and ministry of the Church. **
**Receiving the Holy Spirit in a new way, usually as the result of earnest, expectant prayer, is what many Christians today call being “baptized in the Holy Spirit.” ****Being “baptized in the Holy Spirit” is actually a “release” or a “coming to consciousness” of the power of the Holy Spirit who already has been given to the believer through the sacraments of the Church.
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God Bless,
Maria