Actually it is. If a couple studies Catholicism, understands it, but does not agree with it, doesn’t intend to keep the promises they are required to make to be married in the Church, and don’t intend to raise the kids Catholic they shouldn’t be getting married in the Church. But they still believe marriage is forever, don’t intend to divorce, love each other, etc.In a marriage outside the Church, one is not in a situation where they cannot fulfill the lesser law.
Once again, you miss the point, and it’s very frustrating.You therefore create a hypothetical “perfect marriage” and conclude the wedding can be celebrated for just those qualities.
Once again you miss the point and it’s very frustrating.What you seem to think, is that you can compartmentalize the wedding into everything that is good about marriage, and ignore how the wedding represents things that are against the faith and duty of the family.
Once again you miss the point and it’s very frustrating.This is problematic, because the wedding also reflects a rejection of His Eucharist, and whatever reasons underlie that rejection. Plus, there is a warning from some that the couple might judge you for not celebrating this wedding with them and reject you!