I believe those who have answered thought a different question was asked - like those who have been pushing other issues regarding the BVM in this thread that were never part of the starting post for this thread.
No. Your question has been answered. The fact that you rejected this answer means nothing. Well, it might mean that you just can’t comprehend subleties. Here, AGAIN, is the answer & If you STILL can’t undestand what actually happened at Cana, then the problem is within you:
THE GOSPEL ACCORDING TO JOHN
Chapter 2
1 On the third day there was a wedding in Cana in Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there.
2 Jesus and his disciples were also invited to the wedding.
3 When the wine ran short, the mother of Jesus said to him, “They have no wine.”
4** (And) Jesus said to her, **“Woman, how does your concern affect me? My hour has not yet come.”/******B]5 His mother said to the servers, “Do whatever he tells you.” **
6 Now there were six stone water jars there for Jewish ceremonial washings, each holding twenty to thirty gallons.
7 Jesus told them, “Fill the jars with water.” So they filled them to the brim.
8 Then he told them, “Draw some out now and take it to the headwaiter.” So they took it.
9 And when the headwaiter tasted the water that had become wine, without knowing where it came from (although the servers who had drawn the water knew), the headwaiter called the bridegroom
10 and said to him, “Everyone serves good wine first, and then when people have drunk freely, an inferior one; but you have kept the good wine until now.”
So long as some answer everything except what was ask I can and will repeat my question. Wedding at Cana does not show that God needs to be softened up plus no one has one piece of official Church teaching that says he does. Jesus does not say God needs to be softened up nor does he tell us he needs it
