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Snerticus
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True enough. In heaven there is no fear. (That reminds me of the “beer barrel polka”. But I digress… .I would agree with you that love (a certain degree of it) can co-exist with fear.
But perfect love cannot co-exist with fear.
That is why John say Perfect love casts our fear.

In heaven everything is perfect. We can only hope to attain a certain degree of that perfect love here on earth. I don’t know about anyone else, but I’m certainly nowhere near St. John of the Cross, or any other Saint when it comes to perfect love. Here on earth we keep struggling and growing with what we’ve got until it slowly becomes more perfected. It’s called growing in faith. And yes, the end result will be perfect love. Until then, there will be varying degrees of fear that will help us on our way.
[sarcasm]I am happy though, that the other person who argued with me is either on the level of St. John or surpasses him in love since they have never had a painful or fearful experience that caused them to do good. [/sarcasm].
All sarcasm aside, I’m not saying we should love by fear alone, it’s by no means a perfect form of love, but as we both affirm, it is a first step.