Very blue state here. I won’t be moving because I generally really like it here, but if I were younger and deciding I might well go for a red state. It is super hard to be a conservative here: there seem to be none. Or, better put, we are all “in the closet” to one degree or another. Conservative opinions are downright hated in this area. No Trump signs at all during the election, and if you put one out it would be vandalized immediately. I’ve had to bite my tongue a million times at, for example neighborhood gatherings or community events. It can be quite uncomfortable to hold to what many of them vehemently consider “racist, misogynist, hateful” ideas. Oh, and this is also a pretty Catholic area of the country. Go figure.
Here is a description of where I live. I offer it by no means as a rebuttal but rather as a similar observation of sadly how divided our country has become. I have highlighted some of the points from above and will list below some of the similarities and contrasts of my area, again just to illustrate how alike both sides of the political spectrum can (have?) become.
small very red county, adjacent to large blue city, in a red state
nice place to live (except during campaign season)
overwhelmingly conservative politically
very few Biden signs
liberal viewpoints not popular
usually best to keep my political opinions “in the closet”
often have nearly bit through my tongue
(especially with fellow parishioners lest I be labelled and shunned)
likely to be considered “socialist, pro-abortion, supportive of rioting”
and yes, pretty Catholic area
And for those tempted to chime in that I and my ilk deserve every bit of it because of our political beliefs, or that Limoncello and his ilk do because of theirs, I say SAVE YOUR ENERGY. Better yet, I suggest you expend it in reasonable Christlike reflection and discussion here on CAF, with your neighbors, and whenever the opportunity presents itself. You know what, I think I’ll start trying to take my own advice.