The obdedient act of being baptized is an outward sign of the inward reality of being born from above. How else can you obey the command of Christ to be baptised? The Scripture clearly teaches in Romans 8 that those in the flesh cannot please God. Did you obey God to be baptised by the power of the Spirit and being united to Christ? John 15 teaches that apart from Christ we can do nothing.Or, are you trying to say that while still dead in your sins and trespasses, being in the flesh and united to Adam, you were able to obey the command to be baptised to be the cause of your regeneration? You cannot will yourself to a new life in Christ. It is an act of God.
Colossians 2:13
And you, who were dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made alive together with him, having forgiven us all our trespasses,
By Grace Through Faith
2:1 And you were dead in the trespasses and sins 2 in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience— 3 among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body [1] and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind. 4 But [2] God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, 5 even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved— 6 and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, 7 so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus. 8** For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, 9 not a result of works, so that no one may boast**. 10 For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.