Tis_Bearself
Patron
I decided a long time ago guilt was not productive for me. What actually gets me to stop what I’m doing is a logical realization that it’s actually wrong, bad, stupid, hurtful to me or others, and/or a waste of time. One can’t come to that logical realization properly if one is knocked all sideways by vague feelings of “guilt”, which parents and such often invoke over things they don’t like their kid doing that aren’t even sins.
Perhaps there are others who get a lot of redemptive mileage out of guilt but it just got in my way.
Perhaps there are others who get a lot of redemptive mileage out of guilt but it just got in my way.